how can i be less clingy.?

define clingy??? ----- from what i have seen normal genuine interest in someone is classed as "clingy" ---- ie you call them or text them for no reason just to talk with them ---- you want to be with them ---- hello ---- what happens when you get married do you both live in separate houses and only meet to have a date or some sex ---- thats not reality --- when you care for someone you want to be with them all the time --- they are your best friend as well as your lover --- so tell your "boyfriend" he better start showing some interest or you will dump him ---- i know thats not going to happen --- BUT im trying to show you that you are not in the wrong --- showing interest in someone is not a bad thing its normal and more people should be doing it if they did there might be a few less broken hearts ---- best wishes

People of all ages get excited with their relationships and feel the need to want to spend as much time together as possible. But it eventually causes issues in the relationship. One person will feel smothered and the other usually just comes off as being needy, clingy or desperate. None of the above are attractive and will only push the other away and make them want to leave. So the best thing for you to do is try an keep busy by hanging out with friends or maybe pick up a hobby or something. Be yourself and relax a bit. Hope this helps and good luck!

breathing space is always needed. some times guys just need to be guys, hang out with the boys without fifty questions. i think of clingy as always needing them, asking where they are all the time, calling constantly...that sort of stuff. i don'tt know ifthat'ss the case for you. but if it is, give him a little space, and he will open up more and be really thankful.

Just keep a distance from him sometimes. Don't act like your life depends on being together at every minute. Give him a little space at times and suggest that he has a guy night sometimes where he hangs with just his friends. He will love that

Men like to pursue. If u are always available, or calling, texting and just too over crowding you will

get on his nerves, and make him wanna drop u like its hot!