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pregnant ex-best friend by my ex-boyfriend?

I have an ex-best friend who got pregnant by my ex-boyfriend. She isn't going to the same school as me next year she and him both are going to an alternative high school where there is a daycare which is amazing for me and my friends. Shes the biggest drama Queen in the school and is always trying to start crap with me. But she prego so i cant do anything thing now.Now i could give a crap less about both of them and their baby.But I also talked to her mom when she found out she was prego to maybe help her a little, and was informed that i might be asked to be the godmother. the funny thin is her daughter though everything was perfectly fine between us even though she stabbed me in the back.

Now here's a bigger problem I live right across the street from her and hes over there everyday and its like they are trying to make me jealous but its just making me mad( id like to use other word but cant). My family and i love the outside and are always on the front porch talking about plans for camping and doing other things.

But it seems like every time we are outside her mom who is nosy as all heck (which i just found out) is outside listening to us or i see her daughter looking out the window like every 2 minutes. Our family is very quiet and we like our privacy but it just seems like every time we turn our heads they are in our business again.And plus i want nothing to do with anyone over in that house. So what should i do? Any advice would help right now.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you should let them know upfront about what they have been doing and tell her mom to stop spying on you and your family and that you just want to stop being bothered by them and maybe consider getting a new boyfriend

  • 1 decade ago

    Why do you EVEN care about an ex-boyfriend or an ex-best friend. If they are "ex" move on yourself and have nothing to do with the whole situation (including being part of ANY ceremony that takes place.) You didn't say why there are "ex" but I can guess. Go about "your" business and ignore them even if they live so close. My response to that is, "Who cares?" If you "really do care", then let your conscience be your guide.

    Source(s): Experience.
  • Doggs2
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    screen in your front porch...build a very tall wall in your front lawn...uh, doesn't look like there is much you can DO about it, ...control you own feelings and take your thoughts elsewhere: only you can prevent forest fires. Are you saying other people can control your feelings or are you letting them control your feelings? So..maybe you are going to be easy to control when the aliens finally arrive...

    Wake up and smell your self-control.

    Good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Next time she talks to you tell her directly that you are not her friend, to stay out of your life, and that you will be ignoring her and your ex from now on. That's all you have to do. You really can't stop them from looking out their windows or listening to your plans if you are going to discuss them outside. But, if you cut her out of your life it won't matter.

    She can only have as much influence over your life as you give her. Just stay away from her and move on from this entire situation.

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  • 1 decade ago

    hiyaa babe,

    no effence or anything but it sounds like you are a bit jelous. but not that much its just it bugs you a bit

    look what i would do is tell her mum that you don't even speak anymore maybe that will sort a few things

    and again no effence but he is going to be over at her house every day i mean shes pregnant with his baby i don't think he is going to stay away + its none of your buissness if he is there or not

    if she is bugging you that much interfearing tell her to give up be honest x

  • 1 decade ago

    Sit in the back garden...or "yard". Don't let them get to you. Immerse yourself in the camping.

  • 1 decade ago

    Beat her senselessly.

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