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I'm desperate, please help?
Okay so two months ago something happened between my BFF and a guy I had a crush on. It wasnt really a crush. I had very strong feelings for this guy, and I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I told my friend about my feelings for him. She knew how much I wanted to tell him, but then two months ago she sent him a message on Facebook telling him how much I liked him and if he liked me back then he should ask me out. Turns out that he didn't feel the same way about me. Me and the guy are still best friends, and I'm okay with that, but I'm still trying to get over the heartbreak.
But that's not why I'm here. I'm here because I'm finding it hard to forgive my friend for telling him that. I trusted her with my innermost feelings, and she went behind my back and told him. She knew how much I wanted to tell him. Do you think it's wrong that I still can't forgive her? I can't see myself being friends with her anymore. I'm finding it hard to trust her. Am I being too harsh? Please help. What should I do? Should I forgive her and move on, or should I break my friendship off with her? Would you stay friends with someone if they did that to you?
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
she sounds like she probably liked him too. because if u told her not to tell him and she did anyways...thats pretty damn fake...talk to her about it and see what the real reason she did that for was...and if it was bec she liked him too..drop her
- 1 decade ago
this happened to me as well. just the girl spread rumors about the guy and me and i was dating him. then he broke up with me// but where still best friends. im not friends with her anymore for all her backstabbing and lies.
heres advice.
shes your friend right? if she was true she wouldnt have done that [trust me] she must have liked him as well. [its obvious she crushes your chance for her leep at the man] she probably said some lies and made you sound like an obsessive freak wicth is why he freaked out and probably he could have lied.
no guy is truthful to a girl who tells him that. but if hes a really decent guy and many people think he is a decent then he musst have been telling the truth.
you have to forgive her. [not have to. but if u want to you should] if you REALLY cant. and she continues to be a bad person and you continue to not want to be around her
this is either cause of the unclosed problem, your unresolved emotions or the problem deffaintly left a hole in the frienship. probably because she likes him and you still do but are trying to get over him and he dosent like you [but, then again no one knows if thats true or not right?]
anyways, if it does continue. break it off with her. dont be hesitant.
hope i helped.
Source(s): personal experience
