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going to the mall with a friend (not good)?

why is it not good? my friend alia wants me to go to the mall with her this monday and she wants to invite her boyfriend tyquan and the problem is that we known each other since 7th grade and he hates mY guts (in 8th grade, he abused me, 10th grade, he threw rocks at me and i chased him and his cousin at school upstairs for being morons). she doesn't know a thing. if she found out, she might think im lying and don't wanna be friends anymore or she might dump ty and he will kill me (trust me). what are some good advice? im scared to get near him. i just wanna make peace. he might not want to be friends. HELP!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You should tell your friend you two know each other because if you don't eventually the truth will come out. Then, your friend will start acting suspicious because you did not tell her ahead of time you knew him. Tyquan reminds me of some guys I knew who bugged me just for the fun of it. He is like the typical teenage boy who thinks aggravating girls is fun. Tell your friend you want to keep her friendship and you two should not lose it because of how immature her boyfriend acted years ago towards you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Call her Monday and tell her you feel like *&*&^ and you think you might be getting your friend. It will buy you time until you figure out what to do. I would not want to be friends with him either. Take care of yourself first.

    I would be honest with her when you feel you can be and tell her that although you respect her right to choose her boyfriends you are not comfortable being around this guy and you wish that she respects your fears and that you care for your friendship a lot. She will either accept it or not. Might not be easy at first but friends figure it out and hopefully she will too. Maybe show her this question and all the answers.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you think you could call him before hand and make peace then go for it! its always good to heal broken bridges. If that doesn't work, tell your friend, and then he can't "kill you" because at least you tried to make friends with him. he needs to grow up. and i would beat the **** out of any man throwing rocks at a girl, that does not need to happen. physical abuse is definitely not right especially when its a male doing something to a female. tell your dad or the cops or your big boyfriend if he tries anything to hurt you

  • 1 decade ago

    You probably want to be honest with her. If he abused you in 8th than you might not want him around your friend. If you go to the mall then he probably won't pull anything around your friend. Whatever you feel like doing. Good luck, you'll make the right decision.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, this situation is pretty bad. My first thought would be to tell her.

    But i don't want you dead. Maybe you could try to confront "Tyquan."

    See if things could be different between you two.

    For Alia's sake.

  • 1 decade ago

    wao .i think If you think you could call him before hand and make peace then go for it! its always good to heal broken bridges.ok thank you so much

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