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I caught my boyfriend texting another girl. </3?

hi I'm 21 yrs old and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years now, lately he's been locking his phone and not wanting me to see it. I find this strange cuz we used to be so open and he never hid his phone so while he was sleeping i took his phone and caught him texting a girl who he has feelings for even though they are just friends. He was calling her names like baby and flirting with her. I'm heartbroken cuz a few months ago we took a break and that was the girl he was talking to alot and he even confessed to me that he likes her even though now he denies it. I also saw a text where he send to her inviting her out one day where i couldn't make it to the movies sort of trying to replace me or somethin? Idk if i should confront him bout it or just let it go, any advice? i don't want problems and i really love him.

Thankx in advance.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ok first off he is seeing that other girl. I have been in that situation and if you talk to anyone else in the situation then you will hear the same thing. When you are all lovey dovey then all of a sudden things change and you notice weird things like he is staying out later then he should or he wants to leave more regularly. work is going longer then expected. That usually means he has someone else. You need to confront him because he could be seeing someone else and how would you feel if he brought you home a disease you couldn't get rid of???? You need to protect yourself because if he isn't cheating on you now he has definately thought about it and calling another woman baby and flirting just shows how much he is into her. I understand you love him, but ask yourself this question. Would you want to be with a man that doesn't love you and walks all over you?? I say doesn't love you because if he truly did he wouldn't do anything to hurt you or walk all over you. I hope I was able to give you advice. Have a great day.

    Source(s): personal experience
  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him about it, and see what he says. If he suddenly beomes deffensive then theres obviously something he is hiding. You should defintaley not let it go if it is bothering you, because it will effect your relationship in the future and it will be brought up at one point or another. If he loves you, he will talk to you about it and you will find some reason. If not, and your not convinced he is being faithful hen you need to think about weather you want your heart broken.

  • You should confront him and if he keep denying it tell him to be a man about it cause that is not right he keeping secrects and the key to a good relationship you must remain honest loyal and faithful

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    confront about the situation, they are getting too close to be texting, then it could turn into sexting. I just have a feeling when things are ugly, it will never turn out pretty.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Guys are naturally flirtatious. He may just have given her a pet name while they hung out when you took a break. My friends that are boys call me honey and 'mama' and babe. I would not confront him about it because he would have to find out you went through his phone. Just ask him why he's locking it. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you should prolly just come rite out and be like whats up with you and her.. and trust me he will to deny he talked to her but just be like i saw your fone.. tell him the truth that you dont want to lose him and if he feels the same yall will work out!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    guys are jerks. no woman deserves that. i would say to confront him even though you're uncomfortable about it. if he denies it, then he's lying and you know it.

    i think you should just end the relationship bc you dont deserve that.

  • 1 decade ago

    you should confront his and let him go easily.

    there will be other guys

    this one is not for you- clearly he has his mind on somebody else.

  • 1 decade ago

    you have all the rights to be jealuous and to do something about it because u are the current gf and he is suppose to be putting all his attention to you. so i say u make him choose. thats how u can tell if he is worth keeping.

    mine please :) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AozJb...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    guys are bullshit:(

    im sorry that happens to me all the time

    BREAK UP WITH THE DOUCHEBAG! show him you dont like to be played with.

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