is it worth trying or let it go?

Hmm, sorry to hear you're having a tough go with this guy.

It's never fun to have to do all the 'work'.

I believe the situation can change, but it won't change if you keep saying or doing the same things over and over.

You say unless you initiate contact, you won't hear from him.

That's not cool.

If a guy really wants to get in touch with you, even if he's busy, he will!

It sounds like you have to lay off the pressure and get busy yourself.

Don't contact him, unless he contacts you. Only return his calls, texts, emails and at random times. Don't initiate contact.

He will get the hint better with your actions, and not when you nag.

If you're just fed up with this guy, and don't see the light, maybe it's time to let go.

But first back-off and see how it goes.

Love is never about playing games, things should just come naturally!

Just see what happens. You guys might stay friends and move on in life but end up taking different roads (which is totally natural). Yet, you might meet up again in the future. Whether things will click or not, it surely doesn't seem worth being with a busy man such as him right now. But don't think about it too much. Unhealthy.

sounds like a let go. People can change, but not from an external source, not from what you want to change him into.

You can't fix people.

If you don't like him of course let it go. if you really like him don't give up

let go