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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

asking the girl out. 10 points?

im 17 and i work with this one girl that is really cute. we seem to really hit it off every time we work together. so far we worked together for about a week. i dont know if i should ask her out or if i should just be friends. If you can list the pros and cons of if i ask her out. 10 points for the best list

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  • 1 decade ago
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    pros. dudee you got yourselff a girl

    cons:if she doesnt like you, it might be kindaa akward.

    i wouldd wait maybe another week or so and deffinatlyy give her the signs that you like her and then she might give you the signnss back. but if you dont make the move someone else might. dont assume she'll wait forever,she wont/: take a chanceee and life life

  • Pros:

    you get a girl friend

    you fall in love

    you may find who ur looking for in life

    something to do every day

    have some fun

    enjoy some time with someone

    going out with someone is good for the soul if it's the right person!

    even if it isnt, it can help you narrow down the list until u do find the right girl!

    wouldnt want to miss an oportunity

    everything is worth a shot!!!

    Cons:

    she may not like u

    it can be an embarasment at work

    u may feel aqward at work

    u may have not goten to know her enough

    u could get stuck in a bad relationship

    u could miss out on another opportunity with a girl

    she may distract u from ur work

    she may distract u from ur friends

    she may try to take over ur life

    i gues i would potentially go for it, but first wait another week or 2, and see how her personality evolves as she gets more comfortable around u. u may learn that she is a *****, or she is perfect for u!!

    hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    and good luck!! i hope u get the girl!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    If you have great convos, you've got a slight advantage. If she drinks coffee, tea, smoothy etc, one time on your break, get one for you and her, and tell her, thought you could use one to, or I know you drink these as well, etc. Eventually, you might get some coffee together, and take it from there.

    OR, if she needs a ride home, offer her one if you have a car and take it from there

    OR, find an excuse to take a break together. That way, its sort of like hanging out with her and you can take it from there.

    PROS: it's safe, cuz you can eventually ask her out to a dinner, and than a REAL DATE, etc by getting into her head. If she says no, she'll no you as a sweetheart friend.

    Cons: If she says no, just a little dissapointment, but no big reaction :-)

    PS, make it seem like it's the friend level if you choose to buy her a beverage or offer a ride

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    If you know her fairly well, I suggest that when you see her at school, you politely ask her what she is doing after school or if there is a convenient time that you could speak to her. When she answers, "Yes", then she will know that there is something that you want to talk about in private without others being around. She will probably already have an idea of what it is about, LOL. Just be honest and forthcoming and say, "I would really like to take you to Prom if you don't already have plans." If she says, "Yes", then if you don't already have her number, ask her for it and ask when would be a good time to call her so you two could talk about the evening. Make sure you have a pencil and paper handy so you can take notes - you will want to be the best Prom date ever, so make sure to pay attention to detail. Be prepared - Prom is huge to us gals and you want to be remembered as a gentleman.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ask her out if your confident, but I'd say to give it a little more time and get to know her before it goes further. Especially since you guys work together, if you go on a date and things don't go well, well then it really sucks to go to work right? I don't have much pros and cons since I don't really know the full details of your relationship with her, but consider time and work. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    well lets see pros: you get a gf, you may find true love, you have someone to talk to, someone to look after, kissing and hugging

    cons: you only met for a week, could end because you dont know her that well but doesnt mean this will actually happen just listing possibilities

  • 1 decade ago

    Pro

    If you ask her out you get the chance to find out if shes attracted to you

    You get to see if you like her personality to

    Con

    You won't get to see how she is with you on a regular basis or if she has a good mind set

    You might get turned down

    I think you should wait until you get the vibe that she is feeling you to. Maybe a little innocent flirting here and there and get to know her.

  • 1 decade ago

    well the good part is tht u only knew her for like a week so if u do ask her out its not gonna be toooo awkward (like it is when uve been friends with the person for a long time then decide to ask them out) ask her if she wants to chilll get sumthin to eat or a movie?? make sure she dnt have a boyfriend tho first lol

    Source(s): my brain
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask her out! Be confident. Girls love confident guys. If she does say no...so what. She won't think any less of you for asking her out on a date. If anything she'll be flattered. If you don't make a move you will always ponder what might have been.

  • 1 decade ago

    I personally wouldnt take the friend route, she may think you are not interested, a girls mind is very volatile, if you do not make the move she will go off you.

    Dont expect her to make the move!

    ask her out!

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