Why do Aries Men Ignore PPL they love?

I'm an Aries woman and I was in love with an Aries man in my first year of college. He was really friendly and sweet. I'm not very approachable, in fact, I'm very introverted, contrary to what my sign says. But he was the complete opposite of me. I did like him. I flirted with him through making eye contact and nothing more. I only stared at him three times and one time when we were in class, he was sitting behind me and when I asked him a question about a class project, he stared deeply into my eyes and I have to admit I was a bit turned on. After 1st year, he left college to become a pilot and I haven't seen him since. The Aries man I liked doesn't ignore people, he's very outgoing. He will ignore you, if he thinks you're treating him unfairly. But, overall, I miss the Aries guy I knew.

If you want to use astrology, you need to do up timed birth charts for both of you, and look at everything in the chart. Pay special attention to the aspects between planets in the chart, as this is the most important part. Otherwise, using basic psychology, it's pretty clear: Trust actions. Words are cheap, and may be what they person WANTS to think they feel .. but actions never lie. His actions say that he hasn't really made up his mind if he wants to be involved with someone. Good that you two have not had sex yet ... that only confuses the issue, and if he isn't sure he wants a relationship, wanting sex will definitely increase the intensity of his mixed-messages. Do not apologize. Back off. Until HE knows what he wants, you cannot possibly know what he wants. Until he is clear, one way of another - through actions, not words - protect her sensitive Pisces heart and do not give it over to him. You are absolutely right ... if he wants you badly enough, if he is able to make a desired relationship actually work and last, then he WILL reach out. If he doesn't reach out, then he is: (a) Not ready for a relationship (b) Not that "taken" with you (c) Too screwed-up to make a relationship work (d) All or some of the above BTW ... don't ever act out of anger in a relationship. You cannot undo what you have said or done, and sometimes it damages a relationship irreparably. Yes, he hurt you and you got mad ... you told him to stop contacting you, to go away forever. Maybe that is what he's done and you cannot undo it. It takes a lot of emotional maturity to not act out of anger, and to make a relationship work, and perhaps you are not ready for a lasting relationship yet. But, if this is the case ... that's fine. If it's NOT working out (which is why you got mad), so very early in the game, then it's not going to work out down the road anyway, and it's better to find that out now rather than get your heart totally invested in the relationship only to have it broken.

I don't believe in all that horoscope mumbo jumbo. Then again, us Cancerians are quite cynical about things.

My boyfriend is an Aries, and he doesn't ignore me or disappear. Astrology is about 90% BS.