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Why would a player tell you that he is one?

So here is the thing, there was that guy that I used to have feelings for him and I thought he had feelings for me too, after a while I've learned that he is kinda a player and I have even noticed some signs so I kept the relationship "just friends" and with time our feelings just faded, I guess anyway!

So we became really good Friends , He considered me one of his best friends and he started to tell me things, about girls he knew, his previous relationship and his ex, and one time he told me what means that he is a player and he likes to play girls, i was surprised that he said something like that even if i already knew but he noticed my reaction and immediately said: no no i'm just kidding, don't get me wrong ... anyway after that conversation , after 2 days I told him that he is a good person and a dear friend of mine and that kind person shouldn't do that to girls because some of them are weak and can get really hurt, he told yes he should stop doing that , I even said sorry to him about me saying that but he said no you are right I have to stop ... after that he didn't talk to me again, I've tried on msn he kept answering one word answers and i asked him" Did I do anything wrong, talk to me"? he said no and just that ... Now I don't know what should I do ? It feels like i'm losing my friend .. But i'm not even sure does he even consider me more than a friend ... i'm confused.. what do you think?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I strongly believe that it's a very classic move that guys pull to try and woo a lady and most probably get them to bed: He opens up to you about his true nature and way of behaving so that he can earn your confidence and trust. He then starts to think that you'll begin looking at him in a different light e.g. as an honest person genuinely making the effort to change his wrong behavior towards women. Right now, he's realized that you can't fall for it and he's backed out. The last phase of the scheme is to try and guilt you and that's what's happening right now. Look, if he's not trying to talk to you, then leave him be. If he's a true friend, he should also realize that true friendship isn't self-centered and selfish as he's playing right now. He should reciprocate in equal measure the effort that you're putting into talking to him. Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Cause hes a G

  • 1 decade ago

    who is proud of being a player???????? why the heck did he tell you that... wannabeeeeee player is what he is... ... yeahh... um u should just let him goo.... wannabee players these dayss... hahaha

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He is really stupid. He is admitting to his game. Let him be and move on.

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  • 1 decade ago

    <QUOTE>Why would a player tell you that he is one?</QUOTE>

    He's not looking for anything serious now.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that makes no sense.

    A player doesn't tell you he's a player ... he's a wannabe player.

  • 1 decade ago

    BECAUSE HE'S PROUD OF IT!!!! :(

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