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I don't like my best friend's new boyfriend? Please help?!?
My bestfriend beroke up with her boyfriend. Apparently there were three guys involved and she had to choose one. So now she has a new boyfriend. I hate him. It's so clear that all he wants is to get into her pants. And not only that, but when her and her ex and I used to hang out, her ex made me feel like part of the gang! But the new guy doesn't do that. He just completely ignores me and he has an attitude about him that I don't like. Anyways, should I tell my best friend how I feel about this? I personally think she should take a break from the whole dating thing, and the rest of the group agrees with me, but they don't want to say anything to hurt her feelings, and neither do I! But I don't like her new boyfriend and I just want everything to go back to the way it used to be. What should I do? We're hanging out in a couple of days again, just me and her. Should I tell her how I feel? Please help?!
7 Answers
- sweetdollツLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
As much as you and your friends might disagree with what your best friend is doing, it will be up to her to realize the true intentions of her new boyfriend and get out of the relationship. Although you were comfortable with her old boyfriend and happy that he included you and made you feel welcomed, you can't go back to the way things were. My advice for you is to be honest and just tell her how you feel. Don't accuse him of anything necessarily or else she will feel like you are attacking her. But if you are just honest and let her know that you are concerned for her then I'm sure she will listen and understand. Usually relationships don't last long when you're in you're a teen/young adult so it's fine.
Hope this helps!!
- Don'tBlinkLv 51 decade ago
I wouldn't suggest telling her to break up from her boyfriend or to stop dating, she could take that badly and get angry with you and that wouldn't solve anything. You can say that you're trying to do what's best for her if you really want to tell her, but I would just chill out and try to make friends with the guy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Tell her how you feel. Why hold it in. Be honest. It's how you feel so you tell her and let her think about it. She probally doesnt see the guy the way you do. Blind love type thing. Think about the best way to say it.
GoodLuck
- 1 decade ago
I wouldn't if I were you. It's best to focus on being her friend and let her open up to you to talk about it one day. Tell her what you think only when she asks for your opinions.
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- TGGLv 41 decade ago
Of course you should. You care about her so go with your gut feeling and tell her.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you should say something for sure. you might regret it if you don't warn her.
- Serene ELv 71 decade ago
You need to suck it up and say nothing about her new bf. This is YOUR PROBLEM, not hers!
