How can i reassure my girlfriend that i wont find somebody else in college?

The only way to know if you can trust someone is to trust them.

Many women--including myself--will freak out about this thing, and sadly there is little you can do in the name of comfort.

The only thing you CAN do it stay faithful to her; put your words into actions.

It also might be a good idea to send her love letters (or e-mail if your not old fashion) telling her how much you love her.

And, tell her about the new people your meeting, so she doesn't think your hiding anything from her, but still assure her she is better.

For example, if you meet a new woman, tell your girlfriend about her, but say something like, "She has pretty eyes, but not nearly as pretty as yours."

If she's being honest with herself, she knows your going to at least NOTICE other women. But admitting you notice other women but still assuring your girlfriend she's the one you want will show her that you are honest and committed.

An hour and a half drive isn't too bad.. I used to drive to my bfs for 50 minutes every weekend, maybe 2-3 times a week, just to see him.

Also, I would be nervous too if you said you were "pretty sure" you wouldn't find anyone else. Pretty sure does not mean definitely positive.

She is insecure about herself which is unfortunate but I'm not sure what else you can do about the situation besides not find anyone else while you're away.

i'm so sorry to pay attention your tale. She is probably not mature adequate for the dating you elect to have along with her. She feels like she might have some insecurities or some heavy matters in her existence that she needs to artwork by. Or she merely does not such as you as much as she likes the attention she gets from you. She might sense like she does not choose to enable pass of you considering which you're somebody she would be in a position to place self belief in. you could properly be her backup plan. She is finding for some thing else, yet interior the intervening time she would possibly not choose to be on my own so she retains you around. you be attentive to, merely in case her and her mate do not artwork out. She does not choose to be on my own. She has been a great area of your existence. it quite is valuable of you to care lots for her, yet she does not look returning the choose. do not constantly pay attention to her excuses yet decide for the way lots she cares for you per her strikes. Her strikes do not sound like they mirror a straightforward love for you. i might advise you spend time faraway from her. Please understand that there are different women who would be properly matched with you. i think of, considering which you're asking this question online, you may desire to be attentive to deep down that this concern isn't the suited one on your happiness. I advise you destroy it off. while you're meant to be then you definately will ultimately discover one yet another returned while the time is optimal. quite in spite of the undeniable fact that, i think of you may desire to discover somebody else.

Ask her if she trusts you! i mean, talk to her each day, tell her that you love her very much and that you want a future together. Just keep reassuring her, chicks need that. I know, I know, it can be puzzling why they do, but they do.

Just keep being a good and faithful boyfriend, and let her learn by experience. Otherwise there's nothing you can do. After all, it's HER insecurity that's the issue, not your behavior.

You can't reassure her, because you can't commit to an emotion. You can no more promise to love someone in the future than you can promise to be jealous at 2:30 tomorrow afternoon.

man u have a possessive gf.i wud say stay away bt den u love her a lot ,so if she loves u back she shud trust u,if she is having such doubts then there's something missing in your relationship n dats trust.sort it out wid her confront her.

If she gets jealous try thinking does she really love you?

Just tell her to love you enough to trust you

what daniel said !!! :D