Ex's family... should they be allowed to visit?

QUOTE "or point out how much my son's father cares"

How an they say he care if he doesn't come around, or pay child support or even check up on him.

it sounds like your son's father does not want to step up take responsibility and be a dad, that's why he's telling lies to his family.

QUOTE "Every time they come around they say something rude"

Tell them that they should shut their gob, they don't offer any support to the kid and they don't even care that the father doesn't wanna visit his own child... why can't he come along and visit when his family comes.

QUOTE "pushing their religion on me and telling me how a child should be raised"

HOW DARE THEY!!!!!.....they have the nerve to tell you how your child should be raised when their son doesn't even want to raise the kid. a child should be raised with two parents, not one.if their son don't want to raise his son then what does that say about your sons father's upbringing?

as for your question, don't stop the dad from seeing his son when he decides that he wants to be a prop per father. a child has EVERY right to know their father, regardless of your relationship with the father. tell the family that they can't see him unless they stop insulting you. because it its disrespect to you and all the effort u put into raising your child. i presume they come over to visit, they see the child is well dressed, well feed well nurtured ALL DONE BY YOU, NOT THE FATHER!!!.....if it was down to the father your son would starve.... tell them if they want to see their nephew/ grandchild their gonna have to talk to the father about his behaviour... if they don't do anything tell them TO KEEP THEIR MOUTH SHUT!!!.

Invite them all round including the father. If the father doesn't come your point is proven and you tell them all of this. If the father does come make him tell the truth or ask him in open (BY ACCIDENT LOL) Why he won't pay for child support?

OR

Next time they call to ask if they can come say this exactly. "Look, I can't let your bad attitude towards me affect (Insert baby name here) I have done nothing wrong and am fed up of being treated so badly by you. I did not kick out (insert fathers name here.) Neither did I cheat on him. If he is such a good father how come he never comes to see our baby or gives him/her money." Do not let them talk and then put the phone straight down. If they ring back answer the phone if they give you mouth put the phone down. If not talk to them and if they apologise let them come and see the baby.

Hell no, my friend. You really have endured his crap for too long. Just try to get custody of the kid because I am afraid that his family will fight you for it. They believe him because they are related to the guy you were involved with and far too stupid. When someone insults you they insult your son too. They have reached the point where they can't redeem themselves. This hostility is not good for you and your son. It is such a common thing that that a damn coward like him walks out on you, when he found out that you were pregnant. Use contraceptives in the future and choose a better guy that that poor excuse for a man. Also, his family is a poor excuse for a family. Good luck because I believe in you.

i am in your same position i say forget about the family if there gonna be like that you dont need that in your life you got a son and so much more to do since the father aint around at all

excuses excusex nothing but bull crap

i gave up on my sons father why bother nothings changed right?

he left you a long time ago dont give in hes not worth it anymore

hope ive helped i know how ya feel

its his loss

sad to say but its true so dont bother youll be more happier you did

They don't seem supportive of you, your son or in your little family at all ....

My simple rule of life .... if it gives me stress, grief, or pain .. avoid it !

This would be a "Avoid It" time for me ..... if they are good and stay away you'll send them baby pictures at Christmas...... bug me and I'll move and not leave a forwarding address.

Life is far to short to suffer ..... Good luck & hope you and your son do well.

I agree with John. Also why is he getting away

without paying child support? Its the Law. He has to

or go to jail. I would not let him get away with it.

Make him pay.

I would tell his family to go screw themselves.

No visits for them.

I had the comparable factor ensue to me, then I took my ex to courtroom and gained joint custody. She saved him from me for 3 months or so and whilst i ultimately reuinited with him, on my Birthday, he did no longer be attentive to who i became and his hair became grown. He became 8 months previous on the time. i be attentive to it hurts. There might desire to be some criminal tips available to you. in case you're taking drugs or in case you're an alcoholic, seek for help to scrub your act up. I labored with a woman who got here from Korea and married a guy who she met in Missouri. that they had a new child and he divorced her, placed her in a psychological institute, gained finished custody from the courts and took him to a distinctive state. He later married and moved to Alaska. He nevertheless saved her from their new child settle for for some circumstances for the time of the youngster's existence. the youngster did no longer additionally be attentive to his own mommy. the daddy handed directly to the excellent beyond final 365 days mutually as the youngster became 13 and the only mom he knows is his step-mom. Now, my buddy has seen her son some circumstances on the grounds that then and has tried to make certain a mom-son dating and it rather is been very no longer undemanding on her. My buddy is a rich individual, yet she loves her son plenty that she is prepared to attend and notice for the time of the transistion of identifying to purchase finished custody of her new child. NOW, you're able to desire to GET your self AN criminal expert which will record finished CUSTODY PAPERS FOR YOU!!! Then the decide will probable provide the two one among you joint custody. once you bypass to courtroom, you ask for the full ENCHILADA and settle for what's honest. good success and God Bless you.

Only if you consider them YOUR personal friends.

Don't tell them to go screw themselves! Tell them to go **** themselves! The message that they are no longer welcome will surly get across a lot clearer.