How do I get him to stop?

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About quite a few months ago, I confessed to my very close friend that I liked him and he liked me back. His friend keeps making timetables for us about what to do and what day and what month. He also keeps trying to keep us together as much as we can and this is deteriorating our relationship, as we feel an invasion of privacy. I asked him to stop, but 1)He's also a close friend of mine and 2)I asked him gently for him to stop, but he said he's gonna keep doing it. 
Because of this. I think my crush and I are drifting apart (Plz, bear with me. idk y) Please Help.

Live GREEN · Accepted Answer

That's a typical teen, for you: 
Blame your failures on someone else.

Grow-up, Little Girl. Your privacy isn't being "invaded"
and your friend and his timetables are not the cause of your problems.

If you are in a "relationship" and can't handle a friend trying to be helpful,
just wait 'til you get out in the adult world where you'll encounter real stresses.

Your friend and his "helpful" lists may be annoying at times,
but any problems there are in the relationship are being caused
by the only two people in it: your boyfriend and you.

More likely than not, given this question, it's you.....

Your question/ "problem" is a perfect example of why it is unwise
for immature 13 year old girls to date or have boyfriends.

Break-up with the boyfriend and don't get another until you mature more.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop being "gentle." You need to be a bit more forceful and direct, and tell him you need some time to yourself. 

If he is truly a close friend, he will respect your wishes. If he doesn't, then he's not such a great friend after all.

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