My Girlfriend and I had a fight and she went to a bar?

Nice story, but what's the question?

This is the sort of thing that women do to try and make you jealous or get their own back or some other stupid reason. I'm a women and don't understand why either.

You don't say what the fight was about. We don't know if was about a serious thing or just a day to day petty thing we all pick at now and again.

However we all do daft things when we're angry and regret them later. If this the first time this has happened just put it behind you and kiss and make up.

She sucks for doing that I mean so you had a big fight fine~~but you dont under any circumstances do what she did PERIOD. I know she wouldnt like it if you pulled that kind of a stunt would she? I would give her hell and I would tell her to get lost and see what she does...calling and hanging with another man till 3 in the A.M. You are nuts if you put up with this. Tells you what kind of a girl she really is.

She just wanted to piss you off!! And it worked!! Look, she probably didnt do anything, she just overreacted. But you need to let her know that it isnt okay for her to run when you two are having problems. Tell her you need a girl that will stick with you even in a tough situation. She probably got scarred and went to plan B, the other guy! She wants you to know that she is capable of moving on, but you need to let her know that one fight doesnt mean a break up. You two need to sit down and really figure out whats going on!! Talk, dont fight, dont yell, just be chill. If you want to find out what happened sit her down and say baby, this is still bothering me and I need to know in order for me to move past the issue. Then tell her you wont get mad, and dont, then talk. Duh!

Don't put up with that kind of crap! If you and her both know that you would never do that to her, but she's ok with doing that to you then it's over... Besides that, if you don't have trust in a relationship then you have nothing. You two will always be questioning each other and be paranoid. It's not worth it.

mayb u'r not listening to her n want to talk to some1 who will listen to her problems w/u just like u tell us this story on yahoo n wanting to understand it.

it depends how well u know her to judge her that they did do something.

But when i'm mad at my hubby n he's not listening to me, like taking off while we're still in a argument, then i would go to someone else to talk to them.

when i do that, that's usually a sign that i'm try of ALL the fighting. but i've learned to make my hubby listen now.

if u can't work things out n only takes off, then one day she will cheat on u n u will cheat on her

but i dont' know the question u'r asking.

When she said that nothing happend... that was a lie. What kind of woman would go to a bar and JUST talk to someone she used to work for. That woman is cheating. Dump her.

Oh he11 no, I wouldn't take her back. She's way too immature, plus is she going to do this EVERY time you two get into a fight? Plus, who's to say she isn't lying and she actually slept with him. Yeah, you can do better.

What is your question?

Oh let me tell you if she will do that every time you have a fight with her. You should try to talk

with her that if she keeps doing this you will dump her; but talk first ok

Well thats just stupid of her.... if with every fight you guys have shes going to do that then you should consider if you really want her.. i mean every relationship consist of fights and if shes not willing to settle it in a mature way then think about if you want to be with her.. hope this helps! :)

I don't know all the details of the fight, but just based on this you should dump her. Like right now.