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So much hurt...what do i do?
A guy in my class is very nice and sweet and cute and ... well I'm in love with him. since i met him i was. my best friend, (practically a sister) knew about it. after 3 years she finally decides she likes him a little bit. so she asked him out behind my back. I got so mad. I mean she deserves to like who she wants but she is so close to me and she knew how much i like him compared to how much she does. and she didn't even feel bad about it. she spends every minute with him. i wanted to break them up because of her and because the guy dosent seem that intrested...but what friend would i be then? And the guy would never love me after that...im so confused. if i dont i will get hurt. if i do then my loved ones will hate me and may get hurt. i know i sound selfish but im head over heels for this guy and my friend was a bad friend anyway. what should i do?
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- PaulinaLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
well, if you don't mind me sharing, about 6 months ago, a guy whom i really like asked my friend to go on a date. the thing is, that friend of mine happened to be my best friend. she knew that i liked the guy so much so she asked me about it. but of course i said its ok. but i felt very bad after that. i cried for days, and every time i see my friend, i keep on ignoring her and getting mad at her, but i didn't want to act that way, coz after all i said it was ok. but finally, i could not help it anymore, so i told her how i really feel, so she stayed away from the guy. she said she'd rather choose me over the guy. now, were both happy with our own bfs. we didn't really need the guy. :)
well, what i'm trying to say is that, in my case, my friend was truly my best friend, apparently, in your case, your friend was a backstabbing *****, if i may say so.
she knew that you liked him, and yet, she still asked the guy out. so why are you sparing your ''friend's'' feelings? you said the guy didn't seem that interested, so why don't you ask him out yourself? my point is, why be nice to the girl when she wasn't nice to you? she made the first move, she pointed out that "all is fair in love and war." that means your in a war. so go fight for the guy!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Ouch! What kind of friend does that? That was very selfish of her. How is she going to take a guy from you that you liked for three years! wow. That is not okay, you have a right to be mad. I would not break them up because this is going to cause your crush to have some anger towards you. I would talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her how upset you are and angry- and that a best friend would never do that. Allow for her to talk and maybe she will realize she was wrong. Everyone makes mistakes in life and maybe your friend really just screwed up this time. Listen to her side of the story and see what she has to say. Tell her to put herself in your shoes and how upset she would be with you. :/
Never let guys come between you and your best friend. It really is the stupidest thing ever. Your best friends come before stupid guys. Boys just move in and out of your life, but best friends should be by your side no matter what.
- gisrielLv 45 years ago
Well, there might be a couple of matters. One, you might have simply slept in an ungainly role and that made your again and facets sore. You will have additionally pulled a muscle. You stated that you've got been coughing, so perhaps you had a bloodless lately and the consistent coughing made your again and facets sore. I'm definite it is not anything too severe. Also, so far as your bronchial asthma is going, I appreciate. I have activity precipitated bronchial asthma and that mostly makes it intricate for me to sing in choir. What is helping, is in case you breath into your belly and use your diaphragm versus your lungs. This will support you get in additional air and permit you to manage it greater. You realize that you're respiring safely in case your shoulders don't transfer. Hope that is helping!!
- 1 decade ago
Just let it be, you won't get any satisfaction from the act of breaking them up he'll just be mad and depressed then you will ruin any chance you had.