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help! quick advice please!!!?

okay so i like this guy but sometimes i feel like he is mean to me unless im being really sensitive.

i vowed that i would treat him like he treats me by not replying to his texts or replying the next day but he just asked me if i wanted to go to the movies tomorrow... i wanna say yes but not seem to availiable. what should i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First off, I highly suggest just waiting a few minutes and giving him a response back of "sure, that sounds like fun. Let me make sure I don't have anything else going on tomorrow. Can I give you a call back?" You don't want to start a relationship off with someone with a lie or even a kind of smudged truth.

    I will say though, if you are looking into a relationship with this guy, you do need to be open and let him know how you feel about him not replying to your messages. Sometimes, it could be he was busy. We can't all live our lives by sitting next to our phones or computers waiting for a message to come. I would definitely suggest though to talk about that with him. And same goes for you..just because he sends a message doesn't mean he automatically deserves an answer right away. You have things that keep you busy too. The same goes for other things in your life. You can't drop everything instantly once he comes asking. Make sure he knows that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Gosh, it seems like a lot of guys can be jerks sometimes. I've dated guys like this one and i think that he is trying to put up an act that hes some tough guy who isn't too into you, but it's BS. I think that he does like you but trying to make you want him and be all over him; to him it's an ego booster. I think you should go to the movies with him, that's what he truly wants but wont dare to say it out loud, just like I am sure you want to go with him. But keep your guyard up with this guy, he's one of those that are "tough" in the outside and may have a wall up. Good luck

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