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ok I just don't understand this guys intentions, please help?
Almost a year ago now an ex boyfriend found me. Since then he and I have been talking and we've meet twice. He says his feelings are stronger for me now than they were back then, because he can foucs on us more. I question his intentions because he had a girlfriend the first time we dated and now I have someone in my life. We are at least a thousand miles apart, all we can do is talk and every blue moon meet. It's like we have traded shoes and now he's getting a taste of what I felt when I was with him and he was with someone else and vice versa. So my question is should I pursue anything, keep talking to him or just end things now? My friends say he's just out for sex but how can that be when we are so far apart. I'm just really confused about everything.
I'm not happy in my current relationship. But for now it's where I have to stay
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
some guys have a girl for every day of the week.
some guys have a girl for every city they visit.
im sure hes looking for sex. but there might be a little bit more to it than that...
such as, hes having a dry spell and, its just easier to go back and look up someone "old" rather than trying to find a new chick and then jumping thru all the hoops she makes him jump before he can get some from her...
which is not to say that he is not also having his hook in the water too. hes probably all over online dating sites for whatever.
i would say, let him stay a million miles away n be someone elses headache.
tho, being that ur also dating him while involved with another guy, maybe u and he are just 2 cheating p's in a pod :P
idk. u choose ur choice but i bet hes a player if u want it.
- 1 decade ago
If he were caring and loved u he would have either broken up with her or told you he couldn't. Now you shouldbe honest to your bf and don't mind wat ur ex feels as long as u mind what u feel.
B4 u do anything think about who you like more(not who says they like you more) after you have decided go to the person and ask if they feel the same, if they do go to the other person and tell em it's not gonna work... If u pik the ex tell him to break with his gf first else she will be all he has, don't care for someones feeling unless u care about the person, and realistically think what would work.
Hope I helped
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
If you're with someone and happy with them, then why would you pursue something with an ex?
Also, he lives so far away from you - what sort of crappy relationship is that? Stick with someone you can see.
- 1 decade ago
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