how to ease up my virginity ?

Well you want to use whatever you normally use for pain. Motrin, tylenol, whatever you would normally take.

Definatly need to lubricate...like no tomorrow. Get plain, nothing with heat or anything.

I had the same problem...I know it hurts...you just have to get passed it the first time, then you'll find the enjoyment. It won't hurt as much the second time, maybe a little though. Just focus on an object in the room and relax. If you're not relaxed it will hurt worse. Get comfortable and go with the flow....it will be over before you know it....trust me.

Good luck..

Your best bet would be to figure out why it's hurting so much and remedy that, rather than trying to numb the pain through less-than-healthy means. Drinking/drugs are only going to temporarily mask pain, not prevent your body from the physical effects of what is happening to you.

Make sure you're lubricated enough and fully aroused and ready for sex before trying for any penetration. Don't skimp on foreplay, relax and don't rush into it. If penetration is very difficult even after doing this, you have have a microperforate or septate hymen, and would need to see a doctor for a minor procedure to remove it and make sex more comfortable for you.

The link below goes into more detail about how to make first-time sex enjoyable.

sex really shouldn't be that painful. I've known some people that couldn't insert anything into their vagina (even tampons, fingers, etc.) because it hurt so bad, and one of my friends had to go to the doc and she found out there was something wrong where her vaginal opening wasn't fully opened and had to be surgically cut to allow things to pass through. If sex is too painful then maybe you might have a similar problem? I didn't (and most women don't) have to take a ton of medication to help with the pain of sex. Unless the guy is just HUGE. but, the guy I lost mine too was huge and it still was painful but tolerable.

Motrin and Advil are for fevers or aches and pains. Not for numbing. If you are ready to lose your virginity, you are ready to stick it out through the pain. It's not that bad after the first three minutes, so don't worry!

If sex is a pain in the butt, you are probably doing it wrong.

Just tell your b/f to go on ya till he is done no matter how much your beg for him to stop. I bet a fter the first minute or two you'll be into it.

no....i doubt it