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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How do I tell this guy I like him?

OK, I am 30+ years old and have liked this guy since I was about 15. Ok, I am going through a divorce right now and recently got back in touch with this guy. How can I tell him I like him? I don't want to ruin a friendship if he doesn't reciprocate my feelings. WHAT TO DO?

Update:

P.S. He lives in Virgina, I am in Texas. So it is not like I can just hang out with him, otherwise I would definately be spending a lot more time with him.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    Actions DO speak louder than words. You can show him in a few ways you like him. Find out what his favorite things are to do. Hopefully you both have the same "tastes" in likes & dislikes. Just don't come on to him too "heavy" & more or less play it by ear. You'll know if he likes you or not also by his actions. Easy does it & good luck to you.*

  • 1 decade ago

    well there's nothing like the direct approach.... simply tell him you like him. but if your afraid he may not feel the same, start with a little flirt, and see how he responds, if its a good response, flirtharder, if u can sense he ddoesn'tlike the flirting, then stop that should give you some sort of an answer. but when all else fails......simply tell him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him for a coffee or something and maybe flirt a bit and see what happens from them

  • Dave
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    just start spending more time with him and let it play out, if he likes you, it will show.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    just tell him.

    if he doesn't like you, then hes a loser.

    just saying

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