Bestfriend troubles. Is it my Fault?!?!?! :)?

i thinkk maybe she should ahve told u and not kept it a secret but it is up to you whether you want her to be your friend if you would really miss her maybe u should stay her friend . . . it sounds to me like you just want to ignore her. but that is completely up to you

Personally, to me it sounds like the two of them have been messing around for awhile, and add insult to injury your "best friend" didn't even tell you about anything. I've been in the same boat, if she was my best friend, she wouldn't have moved in so quickly. Sorry just the fact that within three days you guys break up and then they are together tells me they had a thing going on, I could be wrong, but that's how it sounds to me, and sorry best friends don't do that to each other, broken up with boyfriends or not, I would never date one of my best friends exes. I say move on from them both let them do their thing and have a good time with your other friends, another better guy will come along, one did for me when my "bestie" did that to me. Good luck darlin

You can't blame your friend for what happened. I had this same situation occur to me, I had liked this guy for so long and my friend knew, and then she kissed him. I was so mad, but then I realized, I can't help it if two people like each other. It's not my friends fault that she is attracted to him. Also keep in mind that that is how it could be with your friend.

Or maybe she liked him for a long time and never told you, then you started going out with him and she got jealous. Then he must have started flirting with her and she thought he liked her so she kissed him.

It is not always your friends fault. You need to go talk to her personally and privately, and ask her about the kiss. I hope this boy didn't ruin your friendship, and trust me, no bot is worth loosing your best friend over.

Good Luck

I am assuming do other things with other girls means "things"

I don't think you have any fault in this, but it's your ex's fault for going around doing "things".

You should try to be her friend if you really are her best friend because chances are the same thing that happened to you is going to happen with her. Then you can be there to support her when that happens.

It's pretty simple: It's the guy's fault; he doesn't know what he want, so he's going around doing "things".

Good luck ^^

i understand the form you experience. i've got lost my terrific chum like that. We basically all started putting out with diverse communities of folk and ended up drifting aside. We nonetheless communicate, yet we are actually not incredibly close anymore. If I have been you i might attempt to dangle out along with her greater. call her and see if she desires to circulate to the mall or watch a action picture. once you notice her in college start up a verbal replace. you won't be as close as earlier, besides the indisputable fact that it incredibly is greater desirable than no longer something. in case you do finally end up drifting aside, remember that there is different persons for you to dangle out with, too. sturdy success. =)

You weren't with him anymore, he was free game and neither of them needed to tell you anything you're not their mother. It might make you uncomfortable but if you care about your friend you'll get over it and just let her be happy. This is not a reason to throw a friendship away.

eh I'd stick with your other best friend and say fk the other one but that's my opinion. can you help me now? seriously no joke. What does love will develop into friendship mean?

I mean, get over it. Teenage love & teenage best friends aren't forever.

ozballer,i think i you should confront her but if she behaves harshly, then you tell her that you've stop being friends with her.if she still does that then you ignore her totally and concentrate on someone else.