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A Special Friend...??? 10pts~?
i have this friend and i met him online and he is a special to me
he is different from the other guys in atlanta [he is kinda big (as in about 270 lbs)] and down there girls only date small boys so he doesnt get girls and when he finds one he says that he holds on to her
i know he cares because my cousin talks to his homeboy and his homeboy says i am all over his phone [wallpaper] his family knows about me already too..
i have known him for about a month
but the sad part is that he lives in atlanta
i feel more closer to him than i do to my own boyfriend
and thats because we talk on the phone EVERY night from about 9:30-about 2 or 3 [lastest has ben 6]
i have rejected my own boyfriends calls to talk to him
i told him that i have a boyfriend and he accpets my decision
and my boyfriend knows about him and he accepts it
but last night on the phone with 'atl boy' we started getting deep into conversation and he admitted that he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend
and i couldnt believe my ears because we discussed that we couldnt catch feelings because a) i have a boyfriend and b) we are like 200 miles apart
i really like him but i love my boyfriend [which lives like 10 mins from my house who i see on a constant basis]
so i am confused what do i do because i have to give him a answer tonight?
can you seriously help me?
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't throw away your boyfriend for someone who you haven't met! He lives like 200 miles away you said, that's far, how you ever going to see him? And you said you loved your boyfriend, if you did you seriously wouldn't be talking to some other guy who you no likes you and wants to be with you, sorry if i sound harsh but its the truth. Just don't do anything you will regret because then it may just be to late!
- 1 decade ago
you need to be honest with yourself first. there is no way your bf knows about this guy(in the details you just shared your bf is desperate if he stays with a girl talking this much to another guy). secondly, it doesn't matter what this ATL BOY says because he could be lying. he might say his parents know about you and his homeboys might say whatever...you wouldn't know. i think you need to drop both guys for a week give yourself time not talkin to either one and see where your heart leads you afterwards. but think logically and don't let either guy accept your previous behavior because relationships should not be like that...if your bf was doing this to you i am sure you would be hurt.
- 1 decade ago
What is the point of being with your current boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else? Break up with your boyfriend! It's not fair to you OR him! Try it with this guy, why not? Sounds like you really care about him. Good luck! :)
- LinniLv 61 decade ago
Choose only one. Then stop spending time with the other one. Make it clear to yourself and to both guys about your decision.
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