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SEE my bff had sex with her bf the first time they met and that was a year ago their still together now...she constantly complains to me how their relationship is not going so well...because he doesn't kiss her, or doesn't show any type of affection towards her ( even a year later but never refuse sex) she's always the one to call first if they stop talking for a reason..she claims him more then he does..( changed his status on Fb to single when she still has hers to in relationship) he doesnt do nothing sweet for her nothing!!! as a bf....my advice for her is to leave because she confronted him about that before....I know he loves her but his not showing it at all...so she needs some advice, she's seating next to me
9 Answers
- 1 decade ago
It seems like the only thing keeping this relationship together from the moment it began is sex. It can become addictive and the only reason a certain person wants to stay with the other is for that reason. If you have confronted him and nothing has changed, call it a day and go your seperate ways, every needs a person that will take care of them and that will love them. What you need to watch out for though is that you cannot always expect a man to be lovey dovey all the time, because that will eventually get old and when you realize that that is the only thing you like about him, the relationship will fall.
- woodyLv 61 decade ago
If it's been a year then I don't think the fact that she slept with him early on means anything. I think most guys that are younger than 30ish are always looking around and wanting to move on to the next best thing. She needs to dump him and find someone with respect, there are young guys out there that were raised to want love and a serious relationship, it's just usually they aren't as 'sexy' as the bad boys.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
OK the timing of sex has nothing to do with their current relationship. Pretty much he is over her ...the relationship is done to him. She is just a booty call to him.
I bet there are others he is seeing and having sex with....she gets a call when the others are not around for him.
BC
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
She needs to take a break from that relationship for a while and see if things change. If they don't then she needs to move on. Next time don't give it away so easily.
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- opetkeLv 71 decade ago
Look,
When you sleep with a guy...his commitment level caps.
She slept with him on Day one. He's still got a Day one mentality with her. Who shows commitment on a first date?
That's why you wait till marriage. When you marry a guy, it's the greatest commitment of his life!
His commitment level is through the roof. And then you can fix it there with the sex (and hopefully lots of sex).
Your friend acted like most of the kids today...retarded.
Tell her to dump this bum, close her legs, and stop disrespecting herself.
- 1 decade ago
Yeah, i think he just lost interest with her, cause that.
It should happen every time girls are like... "eassy" with the boys, maybe he's lookin for someonde more seriously,
Any way, if she wants him, she has to talk to him bout that , cuz , almost there are other girls lookin for a guy ,she has to be quick bout that, do something to make him fall in love agan (:
- 1 decade ago
Don't give him anymore sex. Let him dump her and then she will see what he is all about or you could get a not friend to sleep with him and get her to bust them. either way he is gone
Source(s): life - Elias123Lv 41 decade ago
yeah i kinda did that too exept it wasnt the first day!
butt yeah i talk to him about it i regret it and wish i coulda made him work for it.. butt i think they just feel like they can do it wenever they want so they dont really have to be on their toes pleasng you for sex.... i say tlk to him.
Source(s): personal experiance - mattermaticsLv 51 decade ago
girls today give it away like candy on halloween , except its halloween every night for the guys!
sex has become cheap and meaningless.
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