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Ok, stupid boy problems. Help please?

Alright here it goes, there's Mike, John, and Bryson.

Mike is an 18 year old, high school grad, golf buddy who i've been talking to a lot lately.

John is a 17 year old buddy of mine who has been making moves on me lately.

And Bryson is my 15 year old crush I've had for awhile now.

Ok, so a couple months ago, Mike started texting me and all was good til he started to get all sweet on me. He'd compliment me and stuff all the time. I was flattered til he started sexting me....then it got weird. I'll only be able to see him for 9 days when he gets back and he wants to have all these make out sessions before college. So basically wants me to be his screw buddy. I'm not up for that...

John, a real sweetie and old friend of mine. But we've been hanging out a lot lately and he's held my hand before and we even kissed just a couple nights ago. I like him because we get along great, our families have known each other for awhile, but i just don't really want to ruin our friendship by going out.

Then Bryson, total charmer, sweet, gorgeous, and a good friend as well. I've had a crush on him for awhile and i think he's finally started liking me back. I really want to date him but i don't know if he'll actually ask me out. I hope he will once school starts but i don't really know what to do about Mike and John...I don't really know what to say to Mike because i don't want to piss him off. I still want to be friends. And with John, i like him as well but i'm afraid I'm going to really hurt him if Bryson asks me out and i say yes. It's not really considered cheating since i'm not dating any of them yet, but i'm just sick of going between these 3 guys. Any advice? thanks so much (: by the way, i'm 15.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First off, if you're 15, you should not be messing around with guys a lot older than you. Trust me, i've been in really similar situations to urs, just not all at once lol. Older guys look for younger girls cuz they feel like they have a natural power over them. You have to stand up for yourself and make sure mike knows that nothing is going to happen there, you dont have to be mean, just dont reply to his sexts and dont be afraid to shut him down if he gets too physical or you'll risk losing the respect of him, his friends and yourself (not to be cheesy or anything lol) Well the john/bryson situation is a little sticky. If you and john have been friends for a while, i dont think going out will ruin your friendship, just make sure that he's not just looking for a hookup before getting your mind set on that. Personally i think you should pursue the bryson thing. He's your age which is soooo much better (trust me) and things would probably be a lot less complicated. Just kind of talk to him and try to get to know him better. its pretty easy to get a guy to like you if you find the right balance between interested and overbearing. But DO NOT do the whole flirting with both, seeing which one will make a move first thing. it ALWAYS ends badly. Make a decision and follow through with it, and hey, if it doesnt work out, you can always try going back to the other one, but dont juggle 2 at once.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd say you go for Bryson. :)

    Mike seems a little too much older and maybe a little more experienced. He will be into things that your probably not into and what is a big deal to you may not be a big deal to him.

    John seems like a reliable person to be with but if you guys got together and broke up, it would be awkward because you'd still be family friends. And you probably want to stay friends with him.

    Bryson sounds better for you because he's around your age. You'll see him alot. And it sounds like you've liked him for awhile, and if he's starting to like you then you should give it a try!

    Besides it won't be so hard to lose Mike because you'll hardly ever see him anyways.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm, well you never really said what you are looking for in your answer. But I will try my best. Well it seems like you like bryson the most out of the three. He sounds like he's nice to you and I think what you said about how he won't ask you out is a little stereotypical, girls can ask guys out too you know. And a man who is effected from a break up was never your friend to begin with... and that first 1 is mistaken, you are not a sex slave.

  • 1 decade ago

    mike is out.

    john and bryson both sound pretty cute guys.

    did bryson know you have had a crush on him? because it could be that he sees you are starting to like someone else. guys have this ego type thing like they want you to like them but they act as if they dont care. then when you are slipping away they start to flirt and stuff to get you back. and it all goes the same again when they know you like them..

    as for john i think he sounds like a sweet guy.

    Source(s): me
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    1 decade ago

    Definitely not Mike, at least I wouldn't.

    If it were between the last two, I'd pick John since he's two years older than you and girls mature faster than boys so he'd be on your maturity level.

    As hard as it seems, though, you should make this decision yourself. We don't know these boys, you do.

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