My partner wanted oral sex and i would like other mature women's experience?

This is totally personal okay. Just my preferences and such. Okay, btw-I'm 21.

I do not personally like giving oral to guys. First thing, after a while, your jaw starts to ache really bad. Second, they expect you to act like a porn star when you are doing it and that is not my style. It can be fun for foreplay definitely though, as long as you aren't expected to actually GET him OFF that way. It also somewhat depends on how big the guy is, the bigger it is, the more it makes your jaw hurt. Some women are different though, some women really enjoy doing it.

Anal. Seriously painful. If you are with an AVERAGE size man, it hurts, any bigger it's horribly painful.

If your with a slightly below average man, it doesnt hurt nearly as bad, but it still hurts quite a bit.

My boyfriend of 2 years really wants to do it, and we've tried a few times but it always hurts too bad (he's also quite large) so I always have to stop him when he's hardly in at all. The guy I was with for a year before him was a little smaller then average and I did have anal with him, but it still hurt, but not like it hurts with my current guy.

My friend, lets call her Kay, she once told me (before I ever tried it) that she and her boyfriend do it all the time and she LOVES it. She said it only hurt the first couple times and then she got used to it.

And that is true, to some extent, with my last boyfriend it hurt everytime, but it hurt less each time.

If you decide to go anal, don't be afraid to stop him midway if it hurts too much. Also, at adult stores they sell things like "Anal Ease" that is lube that is supposed to be somewhat numbing, my current boyfriend and I bought some but have not really tried it yet. (BTW-it was only like $5)

Hope this helps!

Look, if you aren't willing to give a BJ or take it up the butt when a guy asks, it is very possible he will get tired of you just laying there.