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Amir
Lv 6
Amir asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

How would you appologise ...?

... if you hurt your friend's feeling for the second time (and just in the same way you did the first time)?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I am sorry. I know I did it again, but if you still love me and if you still have faith in me, give me one more chance. I promise, I will never ever repeat it. you won't be regretful, nor broken-hearted again.

    you are a friend for ever.

    I also would buy a rose, and if your friend is female buy a gift too.

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends: guy or girl? Casual friend or really good friend? Publicly embarrassing or privately hurtful? Intentional or accidental?

    Guy: buy beer, allow nut punch, apologize.

    Girl: let her tell you just how bad it made her feel, have a damn good reason why she should trust you not to do it again when you've already done it twice, ask how you can make it up to her, apologize (a lot).

    Casual friend: buy dinner at a nice restaurant, apologize.

    Really good friend: step back for a few days, then contact and make sure they're okay, then apologize.

    Publicly embarrassing: take friend out to public place, embarrass yourself to an equal degree, apologize.

    Privately hurtful: let them tell you how badly you hurt their feelings, sincerely apologize in private.

    Intentional: you don't deserve friends.

    Accidental: think before you open your mouth, apologize.

    You can also mix and match these answers for any combination of criteria. All kidding aside, if this is the second time you've hurt their feelings, you better have a really good reason for them to forgive you again. Be prepared for them to not be willing to forgive you right away or maybe not at all. If they do forgive you, whatever was the cause of the feeling hurting, make some corrections to yourself and be certain it won't happen again. Also, hope that your friends don't hold to the saying "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends on if the friend is a girl or a guy and what you did to hurt their feelings....

    but considering the fact that you made the same mistake twice you might not be able to fix it this time.....you can only say sorry some many times before it losses its meaning

  • 1 decade ago

    You may not be able to. Saying I'm sorry also means you are saying you won't do it again. Doing whatever it is for the second time may end the friendship. You should try to apologize. You need to tell them you've realized this is a bad thing you have done and hope they forgive you.

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  • Massy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Don't let the time pass, if you want to do something do it before it's too late!

    Tell your friend that you are honestly sorry for what you have done and see if it's possible for her/him to forgive you again.

  • Ellz
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    i say i'm sorry and give her/him a reason for the mistake i did (i mean i'll tell her (or him) the reason i made that mistake again).if she/he is a good friend,i expect her/him to understand.the same way i would forgive my friends no matter how many times they make a mistake that make me sad or angry.

  • 1 decade ago

    Guilt is a language everyone can understand. You just gotta let that person know how bad you feel about what happened.

  • Xerxes
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    depends on your friend, if he/she forgive you or not..

    a girl like "Yutab!" will never ,ever forgive you :D

    i would say,im so srry buddy.i know it was my mistake and i wont do that again.i promise you it wont happen again.ok?and i would make fun of something or tell some jokes to make her/him laugh.

    im sure she/he will forgive you

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