Ladies, don't you think this is a pretty good indicator that I am ugly?

Getting a girl to be interested in you comes in many many ways...looks are not that important in the long run but, at a young age and due to our society's ideas now a days, the right looks are very much sought after....otherwise there wouldn't be that many plastic surgeons.

Ugliness is something that is 'unpleasant in appearance'...but, now a days there are so many things that can be done to improve one's looks. A well in-shaped body is one thing that can definitely be worked on. You were in the Corps once, how much did you keep up with your fitness? I'm not talking about going to the gym and running a few times a month....I'm talking about working out in a regular basis. Your grooming....how good are you on that? Women look at those things big time. Your wardrobe...also, even if you look decent and NOT metrosexual like, what type of man are you? Young women are more turned by the dumb crap they see on MTV, the older gals realize what really are the important characteristics in a man: Confidence, self esteem, Alpha male, can provide well for himself which in turn will indicate that he can provide well for others....passion!, very important, personality.

Look in history, you can probably google: Ugly men with good looking women. I betcha you'll find some pretty impressive cases.

Some of the smartest people I've met are Marines. If you saw the USMC tries to keep it as simple as possible is because one can not make killing complicated, you don't want a 'too much' of a thinker warrior....he/she may begin to think and maybe even doubt why he/she should kill.

I've been hanging around Marines for over 10 yrs guy, I can talk like this 'cause I'm a HM, WIA a few yrs ago.

Look around some more, there's always at least one woman for every one man.

GL

I doubt that you can't get women because your ugly. Evene if you are, I have seen some good looking women with some less than attractive guys. The fact that your 28 and going to school isn't much of a turn off either. College girls like older guys. And you've been in the Marine Corps and have obviously done some traveling so you sound interesting. However, personality is key. You sound a little discouraged and self councious, but keep your confidence up and don't get desperate. Just be a happy, kind, respectful, humble, generous person and people (especially women) will come to you easily. Wish you the best of luck, Romeo.

I don't think that based on what you said you're ugly. Maybe you're either looking at the wrong women or the ones you are looking at don't like your personality. You sound fine to me. And I would like to give you props for joining the marines and still wanting to go to school after :)

I honestly don't think looks will make much of a difference..... I truly believe that what's in your heart is what counts. I have met alot of people and what makes a person attractive is their personality, warmth, smile, their heart and spirit and their laugh....looks, not so much.....It is the whole and complete package that matters....not how someone looks.....and I believe alot of people feel that way as well. Let yourself shine and people will notice....Trust me...!!!!!

P.S. I got my nursing degree when I was 37 years old.....I think it is wonderful that you went back to college..... trying to better yourself and get a degree is not a turn-off...it is a beautiful thing...!!!!! Good luck.... You just haven't found the right lady yet....she's out there...Wishing you happiness always...!!!!!

im not a lady, but im gonna give you my view on this. i wouldnt worry about the college thing. the fact that you served your country and now are pursuing a degree should never be looked at negatively. from what you say, you might not be the most attractive dude, but thats not always what women are looking for. are your standards to high? are you looking only for 10s? if so, than try setting the bar a little lower.

I doubt that you are ugly.

Maybe you just haven't met anyone because the time isn't right yet.

Or maybe it's because you are looking for someone. It's when you're not looking for a gf that one will come along!

Keep positive though, at 28, you still have plently of time left to find someone.

there are surrogate services where people will date you and will guide you if they think you need to improve your social skills I suggest look for them and have them help you with this.

I don't think any one is too ugly to love but sometimes self reflection on behavior and speech can also be helpful device, I wish you all the best.

There is nothing wrong with going to college at 28. I was 33 when I went back to school. Post a picture. :)

i think i wouldn't date military first of all. esp air force or marines.

second of all...have you tried craigslist? specifically, the Casual Encounters section? this may be your only option

you are not dumb. You are protecting our country! You are an intelligent young man!