still a virgin and i have an important question?

Hey there.! Anyone else who is reading the answers: she's had a problem for a while now. Telling her it doesn't hurt is pointless. It's unbearable for her.

I would say to try it. I gotta tell you though, you might be sore after the medicine wears off. After it's done though you just have to deal with it, it won't kill you!

I would actually suggest getting a vibrator and making sure you're turned on. You being turned on is a big factor. No corners should be cut when foreplay is concerned. You're too scared and you know it hurts, you have to relax and want it. Use the medicine, get a lot of lube, I would use the vibrator to ensure your mind is telling your vagina that it's time. There are signals that need sent, if ya know what I mean.

I'm sure it will work, go for it. You've been going through this too long, time to try something new.

Good Luck!!

Xylocaine 2% Jelly should be fine, it is only to numb the area so that you dont get pain in the initial period of sex, since your vagina is like an elastic, it will become flexible and you can stop using Xylocaine after 3-4 times, its is totally safe and advised by many practitioners.

It is a local gel based anesthetic available at any medical shop.

The pain really isn't that bad, assuming your guy isn't too thick. Don't bother with numbing creams... it will be a better experience overall if you can feel everything, even if it's a bit of pain.

Wow i never even heard of that. I'd say just go natural. Yes it's pain but every girl goes through it don't be such a baby :p

Isn't the whole point of sex to feel something in your vagina?

Trust me the pain isnt that bad , to where you wouldnt want to feel anything .

Dear

dont worry

thats bearable pain only,

dont use any medications while intercourse

it may affect your health

dont worry of pain. There is a excitement in that pain.

I didnt feel pain when i lost my virginity O__O..but it varies among people?