Why do I do this to guys?

I think you're just so scared to be dumped by a person that you can't stop testing a person's feelings.

That's why you always try their feelings for you by the test, in which you deliberately stop talking to them and see if they still can keep their feelings for you.

If they leave you, you have this explanation to yourself that they left because you stopped talking to them but not because they get bored with or hate you.

And if they still have feelings for you, that means they pass the test.

In either way you don't get hurt your ego by the test.

Perhaps it's because you choose to rely on your feelings too much, and you don't trust enough your thinking and your logic.

Feelings can come and go and change for many different reasons, a lot of which might have nothing to do with the guy who likes you. Even hormonal changes during the menstrual cycle can change the way you feel about guys in general.

Your only way out is to stop trusting your feelings so much and rely on your logic and your thinking more than before.

Try this. Next time. Even when you feel like not talking...talk. Instead of running away, stay. Try that. You're dealing with a fear which you can describe in words. You need to chill and be glad that the guy likes you! Do what you originally would not do...as in do it afraiD!

im no psyciatrist, but it sounds to me like your not very confident. you like to feel wanted so you draw them in, but when you get close to someone i think your probably scared theyll leave you, so you pull away first x

you need to boost your self esteem