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Is it healthy to stay married when one of you have already fallen out of love because of so many diiferences?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No. Its not. If you can't love someone then you can't be happy in a marriage.

    Some people can fool themselves into believing that, based on comfort levels, they can exist in a marriage, but that's not happiness. Its just existing.

    Some people look to things outside of the marriage to make the marriage bearable. That could include hobbies, jobs, extramarital affairs, etc.

    If you're unhappy in your marriage and you can't fix it. Its usually best to end it and move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    A Resounding NO!!

    It is extremely unhealthy to stay in a marriage where Love does not exist anymore, nevermind whatever situation you both are in, even if you both have kids. It is like being in prison. You are trapped for rest of your life being miserable. This is not how one should live his/her life.

    Divorce your spouse, Move on, and Find a companion whom you can be happier with for life.

    This is a harsh reality, but we all have to learn to accept this, whether we like it or not.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm wrestling with this exact issue at the moment. Problem is my hubby thinks everything is fine. It's so hard when kids are involved too. I hope you find a way through but my guess is, is that if you've gone on this site, like I have, then it is inevitable that you will leave.

  • 1 decade ago

    No it's not healthy to stay married because the one who is no longer in love moves on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your vows were, "For better, for worse"... If that no longer means anything to you, then you should just get the divorce now.

    If it still does mean something to you, you need to make an effort to find the problem in your relationship and attempt to fix it before it's too late.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends on the situation and your level of tolerance. If you're ok with it, it's fine. If you're dreading waking up in the morning, time to bolt.

  • 1 decade ago

    lol..well it's easy to tell with your question that you are the one that's not in love any longer and are seeking the positive nod so you can go ahead and do what you want to do, and are going to do anyway.

    Just go.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes it healthy to be strong minded and commited to vows you made.

  • No, what's the point of it?

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    1 decade ago

    no.. never

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