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Can someone help? I'm pretty confused... Just need someone to help, please?

So, I'm this relationship with this guy. And I'm 14. And he's 15. He's older than me by a year and 23days. I love him. And he loves me back. He said he's not gonna be the one to break my heart. And I love him to bits. I don't think we're ever going to find another. But what you don't know is we're in a long-distance relationship... He lives in the UK and I live in Africa. We trust each other completely... We're just like any other teenage couple - We're inlove.

But my question isn't anything about this.

He's going to come visit me cos he's half African and half Italian and Half Arab so he's gonna come home during December holidays 2010 and I can't waitt!

He respects my views. And he understands me.

I come from a pretty conservative family. So I've just kissed so far. Nothing else. They say we should take the sex part slow. And yes, I am taking it slow. But I want to do with HIM when he gets her. Obviously it'll be safe sex. And he said he doesn't want me to rush into it.. But I want to do it WITH HIM and ONLY HIM. So what do you think I should do?

I mean I'm inlove with him and we've gotten to that stage where - You might find this stupid - but we've gotten their where we want to apply to the same UNI and live forever. WE LOVE EACH OTHER ALOOOOT. Like some might be like "WTF?! You guys just 14/15 years old! You have lives to live!" But I don't know if you've ever been inlove like this. I AM INLOVE WITH THIS BOY.

And please help... Do you think I should do it with him or wait a bit more longer?

Thanks xxx

<3 Being InLove With The Person Who Loves You Back Is The Greatest Feeling Everrr!! <3

I'm Inloveeeeeeee!! ~ Sorry :D

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  • 1 decade ago

    I am only twenty, so fourteen/fifteen wasn't a long time ago for me. And let me just say that the love I feel now for my current boyfriend is 100% different then what I felt when I was your age. There is nothing wrong with waiting. You never regret waiting. You will only regret doing something when you "thought" you were ready for.

  • 1 decade ago

    i just turned 15 and the guy i was datin was half a year older that me. we had been dating since i was 13 and he was 14 and i though the same thing that you did that i loved him alot and he loved me and everything was always fine and i never thought there would be anyone else either and i did that with him and well about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me and no i realized it was just a teenage relationship and i wasnt smart to think those things so.. yea

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should wait until you're 18, if the relationship lasts that long then it was worth the wait.

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