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So why do i act this way at school?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Well this is weird about me. At school im quite and keep to my self and just dosent talk so there for people get this ant social idea of me. But when im out side, At movie with a friend and his friends, or at home I will talk. Even to friends I know and live near me I wont even talk to them. But I wont talk at school. I do care about school alot and its important to me but I would also like to be able to talk to people at school. I dont even have a problem presenting things infront of a class this year of people I dont even know. But I wont talk why is this?
But out side of school I am loud and will do anything in reason. instead of being quite and just siting or standing there
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You're just quiet natured
- wishnuwelltooLv 71 decade ago
I am sticking to the answer I gave yesterday. I think something happened to you either in that school, or a school, that may have made you feel rejected, maybe even a traumatic event. You are not anti social. You are certainly skilled socially in every area except that building. I think you are the only one who knows the answer to this question. Like I said yesterday, I had the same problem when I lived in my last house. All my ex husband had to do was come home, he didn't even have to say a word to me, just walk in the door and my blood pressure would rise. The house was an association for my mind of abuse. However, in my yard or gardens I was safe, because he never spent time with me out there. Maybe there is someone in that building you associate with abuse, maybe you don't realize it though. Maybe the school has a counselor you could talk to.
- 1 decade ago
I don't think you're a quiet kind of guy. From what you have said, I suspect that you believe that everything has its place and you treat school the way students ought to think of it... as a professional environment where learning is priority, not friendships and hanging out and wasting time. You may view your academic life the way you view your work life. You may also be feeling somewhat intimidated in the academic environment, especially if this is your first year in that particular school, college or university environment. There is also the possibility that you feel a high level of respect for the teachers and / or professors who walk the halls and expect students to take their education seriously and behave in a semi-professional manner while on campus. And then again, you might be feeling as though you have made a bad decision to attend the school you now attend.
If you have generally behaved this way all of your academic life, then it stands to reason that you have a certain perspective about school and work that determines your priorities when you are in those environments. Casual encounters and socializing at school, work, and other settings may seem inappropriate to you.
If you are in a new academic environment, your school / work priorities may be affecting your behavior, or you may be experiencing anxiety or confusion about your studies and / or your teachers, or you may feel uncomfortable and disoriented in crowds where much talking is taking place. Examine for yourself why you tend to act that way. The next time you are at school, stop for a moment and pay attention to how you are feeling or what thoughts are running through your head. Do you feel relaxed, uptight, or nervous? Do your friends tell you that you seem moody, edgy, or hyperactive? Your thoughts and emotions provide significant clues as to why you behave the way you do in various social settings.
Source(s): I'm always write. - ?Lv 41 decade ago
You said you love school and it showed that you are much focus on your studies and that is great about you.Talking and interacting with people inside school is away from your character.Well,it is normal but it is even more better that you will talk and interact.You can do it little by little.