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My ex boyfriend kissed me on the cheek and also hugged me three times...?

I got him an early birthday present because he is leaving for college and won't be coming back until winter break. He came over to my house and hugged me when I opened the door. He also held my hands for a while when we talked and before leaving, he gave me a hug. Then when he was outside already he came back in to give me a kiss on the cheek and a long hug. Does he still like me or is he just saying a friendly goodbye?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    ooooooo!!!!!! he still likes u! its SO obvious :)

    visit him at college if his college is close

    Source(s): me! :)
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Both men and women go back to ex's because it's known territory, it's comfortable. There's still some emotion left over or there wouldn't be a repeat. Maybe there are still some issues to be ironed out - who knows. There really isn't anything you can do I'm sorry to say. She's going to make her decision based on how she feels. I'm sorry you got caught in the middle but until she gets the ex out of her system there isn't much chance for you two. There's nothing wrong with you voicing your feelings concerning her actions. You should continue to be yourself and be upfront with her. Hopefully this all comes to a satisfactory ending.

  • 5 years ago

    I was kinda in the same situation you are. I had a hard time knowing the person i wanted to be with didn't want to be with me. I waited for a yr and now we are finally together. Read here https://tr.im/t3P0k

    If i where you i would just leave her alone. Maybe contact her a couple days a week just to see how she's doing i mean 3 years you have to care about her and i know you miss talking to her. Let her see what you really meant to her. If she misses you she WILL find a way to contact you, And in doing that it will show you how much she really cares by calling you just to see why you have called her as much.

    Being a girl myself as long as you chase her the more she is going to run. She told you she didn't know what she wanted. so in other words she needs time, so give her what she wants give her that space she asked for. Show her you care by giving her that. If it is meant to be she will come back to you. Everything happens for a reason. I know all this is hard to do but it does work it worked in my situation. Im glad i did all this. Besides doing all this will show you if it IS meant to be or not. Good luck and i hope everything works out the way you want it to, and if not then i wish you the best of luck starting something new

  • Nik
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Depends on how you broke up. If it was a mutual decision by the 2 of you or something and neither of you did anything for the other to be mad at. Then it's probably a friendly goodbye thinking you did have special and he's saying Thanks before he leaves. If he doesn't hate you for doing something to him then why can't he kiss you on the cheek and hug you? I hug my friends. If He cheated on you or something then he probably still likes you. lol

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  • 1 decade ago

    honestly.. i think that he still kinda likes you... because if he hugged you and kissed you on the cheek before he went to college he likes you.. where as if he was just a friend then he would probably just say goodbye ad maybe a little hug? :)

    Source(s): previous life
  • 5 years ago

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    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

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    Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.

  • 1 decade ago

    Uhmm, if your not going to see him for a while i think its a friendly goodbye. :]

  • 1 decade ago

    still likes you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    aww how sweet.

    2 points.

    lol.

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