You can see my vagina through bathing suit bottoms?

Many women have "fatty" outer labia. This is totally normal. Vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. There is no "normal" way for a vagina to look -- every woman's vagina is different because no two women look exactly alike! There is nothing weird or abnormal about having large outer lips, so don't stress about it.

There's really no way to change the fact that your outer lips are on the bigger side. If you feel self-conscious when you go swimming, though, then you might want to consider wearing bikinis with boy short bottoms, which will help you conceal your outer lips better than normal bikini bottoms. Or you could buy a swimdress, like this, which will keep your entire bottom area hidden:

http://www.beachesandbikinis.com/category/one-piec...

Dark colors are better at concealing your body than light colors, so you might want to consider getting a bikini or bathing suit in a darker color (like navy blue or black).

Honestly, though, I highly doubt that your vagina is as noticeable through your bathing suit as you think it is. You might notice it when you look in the mirror, but that doesn't mean everyone's eyes are automatically going to be drawn to it when you go out on the beach. Try not to worry about it too much. Just focus on enjoying the summer and having FUN instead of stressing over a part of your body that you can't change! Believe me, nothing is sexier than SELF-CONFIDENCE. Start loving your body instead of wishing you could change it. :)

I hope that helped!

Get over the vulva thing. Big meaty vulvas are the most beautiful thing God created. Be proud of your body, naked or clothed, where ever you are and where ever you go. Show off you vagina. If the people around you have reactions and are uptight, consider hanging out with a different crowd or moving to a less uptight city. Life is short, and believe me, you really get that as you get older. Time becomes more precious, and you will soon realize that you just do not have time for other people's very limited and narrow viewpoints. The unclothed woman's body is the Most Sacred thing on earth, no matter if fat or thin, and every vagina, no matter how different they all are - are ALL equally sacred and beautiful.

So be proud of who you are, whatever age your are, and show off your stuff !

( I am a 51 year old single engineer - was married for 19 years ).

Hope this helps.

Hi - I doubt you have the huge labia you fear you have.

The outer lips of our vaginas are meant to be fatty. They do vary from woman to woman; some are thin and long, others are plump and short.

If you're that self-conscious, treat yourself to a tiny beach skirt, there are plenty around at the moment. Whilst at the beach (or pool), check out other women and you'll see all the variations of our 'mounds' going on.

The outer labia DO get fat as we put on weight; and equally they get thinner if we lose weight. I'm not suggesting a diet in any way, unless you are very overweight and you know it.

Embrace your own unique body; it's a terrible thing, to hate your own wonderful healthy body.

Good luck.

Go bland. Plain, easy, unseasoned food such as grilled chicken, plain rice and a bare baked potato are nutritious however your palette will tire of these people quickly, unlike salty moreish highly processed food, which keeps you snacking and piling for the pounds.

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I believe long skirts are great, you're protected up without the restrictions of trousers.

I think short dresses, coz you showcase more hip and legs, but really no matter both will go great

Time your having and exercise appropriately. Never eat before you work out, and wait 30 to 60 minutes after training to make certain you catch your metabolism with its highest.

Of course, the 70s diet still supports sway. Low calorie, high fibre celery will get rid of you snacking, and contains high levels of calcium which help to get rid of the fat content in various other foods. Tip: Eat braised oatmeal with roast chicken to negate your bird’s calorie content.