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i really like this girl?....?
I've got feelings for a girl who, unfortunately, is already taken. We were at a party two days ago, started talking and later gave her a ride home where i also asked for her number which she gave to me. That night, we txted each other back and forth for a few minutes til we both slept. Yesterday night, we were at a party again but this time, her boyfriend was with him so we couldn't make eye contact or talk the whole time during the party. When we both got home, she texted me and we started chatting again where she asked me if i liked her, which i do so i said "yes i do like u". Then i asked her if she still loves her boyfriend which she said "I do love him and committed to him....it'll be too easy to cheat on him but i don't want to....i am attracted to you though that's the only reason i'm talking to you." I'm still not sure if she has feelings for me or not but she also told me that she kinda wants me to stop txting her so she'd just forget about me. The thing is, i really do like her and i just can't stop thinking about her and what she said. I've tried plenty of times to forget about her but i just can't.
So what should i do in this situation? Should i just forget about her and move on or keep pursuing her coz i really like her and it's just too painful for me to forget about her, but i also don't want to ruin their relationship coz she still does love him.
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm sorry, but I think it is best to forget about her. Maybe not entirely forget her, but she is in a committed relationship and there isn't much you can do. How would you feel if you two were dating and another guy was trying to date her? For now, she is taken and there isn't much you can do. Unless she realizes you are better than her boyfriend, you should probably step back and let her be.
- 1 decade ago
Well the girl obviously had a lot going on in her head.. respect her wishes.. STOP texting her! seriously cannot stress this enough, I went through something similar.. Until the day she officially breaks it off with her boyfriend, than you can text her.. if she's really interested she'll end up contacting you.. But whatever you do, DO NOT make a move on her until she's free... Because if she did end up cheating on her boyfriend.. things could get really messeyband you would be in the middle of it all.. Thats definitely not a good way to start a relationship. If anything just be her closest friend.. and when she wants you, she'll come. :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well i know how it is i have been in the exact situation before accept for the other way around so at school you put notes in her locker telling her that u like her but put a deskised name like lover wolf or some crap like that and then at the very perfect moment i meen PERFECT ! moment you tell her it was you and this should start at like the beginning of the year or middle and go on for a few months until she starts to get the 'picture' and send the notes about how she looks like how when the wind blows throught her hair it look loke sunshine in the breeze or something really heartfelt and gives the not to her loker like every 2 or three days and if she gets annoyed BACK OFF! for awhile and then give her notes like every week ok trust me it will work
Source(s): my exspeirience - 1 decade ago
I think you should just move one. One reason why is that she is already attached, plus she did mention that it is too easy to cheat on him! that didnt seem right. somehow.
wells, i personally think that if she can tell you that she has feelings for you while being attached to her guy, she might end up doing the same when you both get together.
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- 1 decade ago
Well considering the fact that she said " I am attracted to you that is the only reason Im talking to you" I would move on she needs to like you for more then those reasons
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well, your in a tough situation mate.
this worked for me once, try to get alone with her. once your alone and your sure no one can see you two, initiate the kiss.
if you feel something, and she feels something, she might just brake up with her boyfriend
if you don't feel anything, then tell her not to speak of what happened, or that it was just a friendly kiss.
this is a very bold move, be carefull if your gonna do what i said.
- §♥§ scout §♥§Lv 61 decade ago
you don't want to mess around with love. if she really has feelings for you then she'd realize that after you started texting and she'd try to talk to you some more...maybe she would understand that she really likes you and dosen't "love" her boyfriend as much as she thought....people throw around that word (love) a lot more than they should.
- 1 decade ago
If she would cheat on her boyfriend why wouldn't she cheat on you. somtimes even though its difficult we have to move on, at first its hard but then you realize you did the right thing
- Yvan RLv 51 decade ago
If you really like her, try not to be selfish and see what would make her happy. If it is to stay with her boyfriend, then don't try to steal her. Otherwise...