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she doesn't know who to choose, her boyfriend, or this new guy?

My friend is confused, she has had a boyfriend for three years now and they've had allot of ups and ALLOT downs in their relationship. a while ago she went out with her friends and met this guy at a bar. She says nothing happened between them and they just danced with each other, but she found herself very attracted to him and is now confused because she loves her boyfriend, but also likes this guy whom apparently likes her back. She says if she could she would date this guy but because of her boyfriend doesn't want to because as she says, she could be throwing something away and this new guy might not be what she expects. My advise doesn't seem to help her, what can she do? (note I only use this site for work related topics, my friend has just asked me for some help)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    The original boyfriend is a second class guy, for insisting he owns your friend. Life is a risk, there is no certainty, and your friend has to face the possibility she will lose the first guy, which it sounds like would be a plus... in order to see about the new guy. What happens if she loses the first guy, and she winds up not liking the second? Jeesh, she might have to start over, face the horrible prospect of being without a boyfriend for a while, and perhaps wind up with a guy better than either of the first two!

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