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What am I to do about this issue?

I just recently got into a relationship and I really don't like one of his friends that he hangs out with. I have brought it up to him before. And he agrees with everything I say. Here's the deal. This one friend is a girl. She uses him soo much for rides to do things. He has even told me that he doesn't consider her a friend but yet still hangs out with her. One day we were hanging out (me & him) and she called and asked if he wanted to go karaoke with her and her friend. He said no cuz he was with me. But then later him and her got into a fight about how he chose his gf over them. So that's been one instant. Then the next instant was just a few days ago he was hanging out with me then she calls and he had to leave me like right that instant :/ I don't know if it's just me feeling selfish or what. But the way he gets treated by his friend just makes me so upset. I don't want to leave him nor do I want to cause more problems. But is there anyway I can show that she is using him? Even though he admits it!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    to be honest...it sounds like this girl likes him if she is saying "how can you chose your girlfriend over me" or whatever...that SAME thing happened with me and my girlfriend...her ex was texting her saying "how can you choose kelly over me wtf were best friends" then the next text was "you dont want her to know im still in love with you?"...and it caused HUGE problems so i made my girlfriend stop talking to her....it sounds like the SAME situation..you need to tell your boyfriend that he needs to make you a bigger priority that his friend thats a girl if he wants to keep you happy or keep you around...he cant let another girl control him if he is letting you call him YOURS.....YOUR his girlfriend NOT this other girl..dont let him play with your emotions like that...take control :) good luck ! :)

    Source(s): personal experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Whats her deal tell him not to let her use him anymore.

  • Jess
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    its either he stops seeing her or you break it off, give him an ultimatum

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