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Help with a relationship please? Past experiences would help aswell thanks...?

I was at a course and met a girl and we both got on really well and kissed and all that.

she lives in another country but is going to come and see me in october and i will visit her at christmas..so the relationship is very much alive and going well.

she is 20 and thinks i am 18...however i am not 18 until january...what should i do?

how would she take it if i told her?

any suggestions would be much appreciated.

I am not immature or childish at all, just do you think this one year younger would make a big difference to her.

P.S...i never told her myself that i was 18 but i know she overheard me telling other people and i never did anything to tell her otherwise....

Thanks for your help.

Update:

she told me she was 20 and asked when my birthday was..and i told her the month and day..but she never asked for my age....she is coming in october and i know she will want to go to bars and clubs but i might not get in with her as i will not be 18 for another 5 months or so....will i have to tell her eventually anyway?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    She over heard you telling other people that you were 18 yo? Quite a dilemma you got yourself into. This is a hard one only because you didn't tell her directly as she never asked. If she over heard you what was the conversation at hand. I personally wouldn't tell her unless she asks or if you ask what her birthday is. I know most people are going to state to tell her right way but if she really likes you and NEVER asked for your birthday or age then age should not matter.

  • 5 years ago

    so do i. me and my bf were jointly for over 3 a million/2 years now, and his father and mom attempt to speed us into marriage (they prefer to get a ring right now). all of it has to do with albanian traditions, notwithstanding I extremely do no longer trust them. i imagine that marriage is a call made between 2 human beings when they trust the time is desirable.. a lengthy time period relationship isn't any justification for marriage. it would want to represent that the relationship is heading in that route, notwithstanding there ought to no longer be a hurry. in my view, i go with his father and mom might want to distinction their thinking, considering the indisputable fact that i do no longer prefer to be lower than pressure by ability of others in making my personal life possibilities. I prefer to do what makes ME delicate, considering the indisputable fact that it is my life. i assume human beings have the tendency to assume that only considering the indisputable fact that a pair has had an prolonged relationship, that it is about time they tie the knot. It reflects desirable cultures, beliefs, and preconceived notions that folk have.

  • 1 decade ago

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