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how do i flirt with a guy at a football game?

we're both in the band, and i get to stand next to him in the stands. how do i flirt or even talk with him? he's two years older than me, and i really like him. any advice? i'm not naturally funny or cute, so any tips would be much appreciated!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Throw up a joke about what he plays. That's what someone did about my french horn and it turned out great. (:

    But yeah. Be a bit blunt, but not TOO straight forward about liking him. I'm asuuming you don't really know him that much either.. so hold off telling him, just get to know him. Just say hi and all of that. It's highschool (i assume) so he shouldn't really bite. Since he's two years older than you, make sure you don't come off annoying/little sister-ish. That happens a lot, since boys are ridiculously stupid and won't know if you're hinting at affection or just playing around

    Source(s): Band geekling loving a fellow band geekling. C:
  • 1 decade ago

    See thats the problem. Here's what u just said " I'm not naturally funny OR CUTE". If u don't find yourself attractive how do u expect him to find u attractive? U lack self confidence. I suggest be yourself and start out talking about the game then slip in a few questions here and there about himself. But honestly, the WORST time to hit on a guy is during any game. Their attention is NOT even on you, but on the game. Funny story I once heard. A husband was watching a football game with his wife and she started going into labor. She told him this, but he was so into the game he completly ignored her had to call a cab to take her to the hospital, and I mind u he didn't even realize she was gone. After the game he realized his wife was missing called her and found out she had already had the baby at the hospital.

    There's a point to the story, maybe u should ask him if he wants to hang out after the game. Cause if he's a die hard fan of sports then u r so out of luck. I would think of the right timing.

  • 1 decade ago

    Be blunt, but not too forward. If you can find anything to open up a light, casual conversation it'll be much easier to find stuff to chat about and get to know him more. Maybe then, you'll be more comfortable flirting?

  • 1 decade ago

    Just start a general conversation with him, start by talking about the football, positions, stuff like that and then ask him if he plays and sport and if he starts explaining about if pretend to be interested, Then ask him some questions about him, complement him on something of his (even if you really hate it) <lol

    you could practise cute faces in the mirror and put your hair in your cutest hair style xx

    * MOST IMPORTANT BE YOURSELF BECAUSE SOONER OR LATER HE'S GONNA FIND OUT THE REAL YOU* thanks for answering my bangs question ♥

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  • 1 decade ago

    hey babe what's up? want to go out to pizza? you flirt with a footballer they love food and different flirty girl cheerleader jokes. guys are crazy they'll talk back to you though

    Source(s): thanks for answering mines
  • 1 decade ago

    Say hi to him, saying hi is usually a conversation starter. Flirt with him a lot. Wiggle your fingers at him, when you feel like it, go to a very private place and tell him you like him. :)

    Source(s): My friend did this.
  • 1 decade ago

    just talk to him about the game... or the music your playing. like say how easy or hard the music is to play. but after that ice breaker just talk to him like you normally would. laugh at things he thinks he says are funny. physical contact is always good. while your giggling at his joke or whathaveyou touch his hand. dont think about it just do it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Men are stupid when it comes to reading hints and body language... you gotta be blunt with him... make it obvious, otherwise your efforts are often fruitless.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lie and say u like sports & ask him does like or play any sports and then ask for his number

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to him..talk in a natural way,like how you talk with your other friends..

    Source(s): me
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