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problem girls pls help.?
Things happening in my life make me go crazy.I am almost alone like an orphan .cos i dont have good relationship with my parents and also not dependent on friends emotionally.my relationships are always troubled as I expect the people to behave the same way as I do with them.I am not talking about strangers here.only about people whom i consider can be of value in my life (friends, girl friends etc.). My only emotional support is a married girl who calls me once in while and we meet occassionaly and share our woes and happiness and kisses too.I do have many girls as friends but its like I always give more than what i get from them.in nutshell My personal life totally sucks. good advice pls.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Aaaah..i feel for you :(
Okay parents are pains..always have been, always will be. Esp if you're a teen and trying to find yourself, the last thing you need is two middle aged adults giving you grief huh? Its normal but if you want to fix it, i think you should voice out your issues to them. Afterall as they always claim, they were kids themselves once upon a time and have probably been through the same feelings you are going through right now..so dont shut them out of your life.
You'll always find that you give much more than you receive (esp when it comes to relationships, all the types) and i hate to say it but thats the way it is. Some people are selfish enough not to appreciate what you give them. What do you do? You keep your silence, what goes around comes around right? Plus its sooo much more rewarding to give rather thantreceive, i know it sucks nuts but tis true and you feel much better knowing that YOU treat people the way YOU would like to be treated and thats the way it should be!
I know this isnt what you wanna here at the moment but it will get better it always does. In time. People start to realise what a blessing you are in their lives and start to appreciate you more.
Its good that you have company but remember she is married, so dont get fall for her because that will hit you hard! ut its good that you have a close friendship that enables you to disclose to her all your personal worries, Keep it if it makes you sane and gets you through the day.
Dont be too hard on your friends and family! They do care, its just that they are not showing it the way you want it to be shown. Give it time. It will change and your life will change and become less suckish, this is just a phase.
Source(s): Been there, done that..got the T-shirt and DVD as memoirs :) - Anonymous1 decade ago
You did no mention your age ? That really effects my ability to answer this question.
However, generally, all of the things you are feeling will change with time. These feelings are normal for a teenager - especially a teenage boy.
It might help if you had some counseling and maybe take some medicine.
Peace.
- 1 decade ago
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