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Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

Period: can you guys tell me what you think about this? Thanks!?

So I have a guy friend that I am really close to (but hes just a friend) we can literally talk about ANYTHING...except periods. He completely clams up and becomes mortified when I even mention anything about periods (like if I'm not feeling good and he asks me what wrong and I say I'm on my period and have cramps or if we go grocery shopping together and I put some tampons in the cart he will split off and be like "I need to get this...wanna meet me in the car" or if he hears my friends and I talking he gets all embarassed). I don't get why its that big of a deal, I'm not embarassed about it. Why is he acting like this? Do you act the same way? Or are you okay with period stuff? Do you think I should like sit down with him and talk about it?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Im going to guess he has no sisters.. and his mom probably dosent share that information. Its new to him, and lets be honest, its kinda gross. My hubby had no sisters and to this day he does NOT want to know anything about my period and expecially our daughters! Its normal for guys not to want to know about something so "gross" in what would normally be a sexual place for him! Totally normal, dont push it. If he asks if you dont feel good, simply say "woman issues" he wont say anymore, but you answered his question!

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    4 years ago

    stay the hell removed from him. he's fu****g alongside with your head and thoughts. he's a dick head. He went off and did all that stuff whilst he knew the type you felt. he's no longer nicely worth dropping a single minute on. If I have been you i might purely delete him on your bills and her too and circulate on. instruct him which you're no longer fickle and stupid and which you're nicely worth something and not valueless! He would not deserve a respectable female chum and him and the different woman deserve one yet another. If he replaced into any style of chum to you he might have placed your emotions first and advised her the place to circulate. It sounds to me as though he's somewhat finished of himself and immature. He needs to develop up and you could desire to offload him.. enable him comprehend you do no longer care. enable him comprehend that folk do no longer mess with you. you're no longer the form of guy or woman who would be so vulnerable to circulate working returned. Be stable. There are a techniques nicer people in the international. it truly is in comparison to he's the only guy in the international is it? somebody who's plenty greater advantageous and truly merits you is obtainable someplace. purely wait and see and it truly is plenty greater advantageous to be on your guy or woman than with a plonker who disrespects you and is in love together with his ego! carry your head up severe..you are the greater advantageous guy or woman right here.

  • 1 decade ago

    now you see the right thing to do is to sit down and talk about it.

    but if it was me i would continually say period period period just to see his mortified face. Or i would tie him to a chair and then rip out tampons and pads and panty liners

    but that's just me....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He isn't used to it I guess. Although my friend used to be the same way. I think also it has something to do with the whole "manly man" thing, he might feel like if he gets too comftorable with it, other guys might consider him as "one of the girls"... But honestly, you'll have to ask him. :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think it's FUNNY what i do is sing PERIOD PERIOD PERIOD just to tease my boyfriend he looks so cute and terrified. that's just the way guys are my dad will not talk to me about sex or periods all he ever says is wait 10 years after ur married

  • 1 decade ago

    oh my gosh guys are so annoying! my fiance was like that. and then one day i was like...what's your deal? it's normal and healthy for a woman to get her period every month!

    now he's not as bad as he was before.

    i think it's a fear of the unknown.

    Source(s): personal experience
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