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My friend is always with her boyfriend?
I don't know why but it bugs me
she's always with him me and her used to always be with each other
and I have a boyfriend to but he lives across the Atlantic ocean and this is the time
where I need her most, but she's always with her boyfriend. I get that she doesn't always wanna be with me but like at least sometimes every weekend we would have this day called " city day " And we would go out into the city and prank people we still do but most of the time she's like I cant I'm going to be with him , and now she's smoking and drinking and that's not her I know that because I've known here for like 6 years , he's making her like this but she's so in love that she can't realize what's happening. HELP?
x
millan (a very concerned friend)
6 Answers
- 1 decade ago
You friend is growing up. It's not necessarily in a positive way, but she's indeed experiencing new things (the smoking, the drinking, the quitting-friends-to-be-with-my-boyfriend attitude).
You might want to try and talk to her about it, but chances are she'll give you the cold shoulder. She's too 'grown-up' to go pranking people in the city. Really though, she probably won't appreciate the fact that her behaviour is hurting you. You can try calling her another couple of times to see if she wants to hang out and if she doesn't let the dust settle for a while. If she calls you again later sometime at least you'll know that she cares enough to spend time with you. But don't get your hopes up. If I were you I'd start looking for a new friend in the time being; that way you'll have someone to spend time with while she gushes in her boyfriend awesomeness.
Do realise that no one is making her do anything - she has chosen her bed and she'll have to lay in it, whatever the future may bring,
- 1 decade ago
You can try telling her that, but she probably won't listen. It sucks, but friends usually put their boyfriends before their long-time friends, then come crawling back to their friends when they get dumped. However, the fact that she's drinking and smoking makes it even worse, you don't and shouldn't want to be around that toxic behavior. I say tell her how you feel and cut her out of your life for a while. Eventually, *if she ever cared about your friendship*, she should try to make amends with you. After all, you have been friends for 6 years! Either way, try to hang out more with your other friends for the time being or make new friends. That way, if she doesn't go back to the way she was, you won't need her.
- kaupLv 44 years ago
No, that's comprehensible. that's who ur use 2 doing each and everything with so n' time u'll alter. U r satisfied 4 them, u even stated so n' u be attentive to what the subject is n' u do not start up hardship n' act all nasty w/an attitude n' it incredibly is love interior of itself 4 ur chum. U have given area u seeked out 4 netural help n' not be angered @ her n' make her experience as though she's did something incorrect so ur a sturdy chum n' my e book. U'll met somebody, summer season is close to so take care n' sturdy bye.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
U can help her by some stories and do sth that she feel u closer you should talk to her give her some gifts but if she didn't giveup it's better to say goodbye to her and live her alone because it can be dangrouse for u too.
- 1 decade ago
c'mon. its not like shes gonna stop being ur bf if shes just spending time with him. keep asking if she wants to hang out and if she cant, then hang with some of your other friends.