Aunts husband sexually harrasing me and she is blaming me?

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My aunts husband is a huge perv, since I was younger then 10 he treated me differently compare to my other cousins/siblings ect.. I'm 18 now and he doesn't stop starring at me. He made a joke once saying I look like a Latina Pole dancer/ stripper..... 
He asked me on facebook, have I had sex and what's my favorite positions.. I didn't answer!

My aunt (his wife) hates me! she's my aunt and I love her... and I don't want to sound vain but I'm a good looking young girl, I'm very well endowed I have a slim slender waist, and 36 D firm breasts, curvy hips, a butt like kim kardashian I mean I look good.. I'm sorry to say that I no I sound so big headed but its the truth. but my aunt is blaming me, I mean I put on a new shirt my mom brought me for my birth and she's looking at me with a mean face and is like "yeaa your waist looks to slim and your butt and breasts look too big, thats not normal to have a waist that small compare to your breasts and butt.. your not normal!" trying to make me feel bad! I mean shes huge like really fat so shes probably just jealous..

then apparently my sister was telling me that my aunt went into her bedroom and closed the door and started saying about me "she's a fu--ing slut, i hope she gets raped, she looks promiscuous like she wants it dirty little h--, stupid b---- i hate her"
I was shocked when my sister told me and I knew my sister wouldn't lie about that!

but I'm sitting there at the table and my uncles starring at my breasts, I'm trying to hide them a bit... cause my shirt was low.. and my aunts like "cover upppp stupid"so I do, but his pretending to read whilst looking up with a perverted smirk at my breast and my aunt is like "bit-- get out the rooooom get outttttt you little bi---" I mean wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww his the one looking at me! she keeps shouting at me. and she keeps having fights with him but he wont stop, i mean his asking me "how old am I" I say "18" he gets excited for some reason and is like "ohh really you can have sex now, have you had sex yet or done anything babe.. have you" and I'm just like.................... umm and walking away!

I ALWAYS SEE HIS EYES ON ME, AND HE MAKES IT OBVIOUS HIS LOOKING AT MY BREAST, and my aunt was crying saying "why does he keep looking at herr" like its my fault... I FEEL VERYY VERY UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND THIS MAN I HAVE TO KEEP COVERING MY BUTT WHEN I WALK, LIKE PULLING MY SHIRT DOWN, I HAVE TO HIDE MY BREASTS, I SLEEP WITH MY BEDROOM DOOR LOCKED, MY MOM WANTED TO GO OUT AND LEAVE ME ALONE WITH HIM AND I STARTED CRYING SAYING "NO MOMM PLEASEE NOO" AND SHE LET ME GO WITH HER! I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE BEING A LONE WITH HIM ITS SO SCARY. HE MAKES ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!

his my moms sisters husband by the way, the have been married for like 20 years

my aunt keeps blaming me! what should I do?
by the way there from puerto rico and staying with us in florida for a month!

walmeis · Accepted Answer

1.  Stay away from him as much as possible.
2.  Wear sloppy clothes like sweats and unfitted shirts when you expect to be around him.
3.  If you can stand it, wear a minimizing bra during the time you *have* to be around him.

That's about as much as you can do.  If you think it will help, and you're able to, tell him "Stop staring at me!  Keep your perverted eyes off me!"

Obviously you are male fantasy material.  Being 18, he's probably thinking you're fair game from the point of view of not being a child anymore.  Do what you can to make him give up any thoughts that he could possibly get lucky with you.  But you'll be trading one kind of discomfort for another.  It won't be easy.

Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm soo sorry that sounds terrible that your aunt is treating you that way! I would talk to your mom about it because the same thing happened to me when I was 14. My mom and her sister were fighting ever since I was born so I never saw her in my life. Well they appologized and I got to see my aunt and uncle more often. A year after I met her ( I was 15) My aunts house caught on fire so they came to stay with us for the next 2 years (we thought it was only going to be a few months) My uncle would always look at me too. My aunt never noticed because he did it when she wasnt looking. I am an italian with tan skin, black hair, big boobs, big butt, slim waist like you explained. Well all the time my uncle would walk past me and his hand would slide across my butt and he would always be looking at my boobs and i just tried to ignore it. But TELL SOMEBODY WHAT IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW!!! I was home by myself with just me and my uncle and i got out of the shower and he raped me. Please tell somebody before he hurts you. I told my aunt what happened and now she hates me and says i'm lieing and calls me a slut and a whore now all the time. She still lives with us and i got raped like last week and after living with us for 2 years I thought he wouldn't harm me but I was wrong. Please tell somebody.

Anonymous · Answer

When you are around him I recomend not wearing a pushup or padded bra and wear like a sweatshirt or something with a high neck line try not bending over when you are around him, do not wear short shorts you can wear shorts but make sure that they go down to about your knee or so and make sure your shirts are not going to slip up at all but I know this sounds wierd but when you are around him try wearing unflattering outfits and not to much makeup so you don't look all smexy sorry sweetie that's all I got for you hope this helps!!

dree · Answer

Get Out of the House.!!!!!

soon or later that f*****g man will do it. That house is not safe anymore. Moreover, your mother cannot protect you, that's shame. Get out soon, find a good, trusted community, make a solid friendship, talk/share to professional person about this problem. Meanwhile, don't let you alone in that house, just Get Out!!

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