My husband of three years just walked out on me what do i do ?

In my opinion. I HONESTLY don't think you should be with him.. Everyone has their opinions and some are going to be different than mine. But the way I see marriage is that you both should be happy no matter what. Through your struggles yeah it may be hard and what not but still you wake up in the morning happy to be with each other and happy your sticking together! You both should just be happy period. Him walking out on you like that is pretty much like "I give up on you" He should have instead talked with you if you guys had a problem. If you feel like he's only putting very little effort into your marriage then why deal with it? He should be meeting you half way on the effort. A relationship IS with two people not one.. Love is very confusing. You will probably always have love for him.. But then you could also find someone who shows you their love for you as well. 3 years is a lot of time gone through the drain. But in the end it's not my opinion or anyone else's opinion you should be listening to.. You should follow your heart! Good luck to you and hang in there. You will end up happy in the near future. There's always light at the end of every tunnel.

Walked out to a homeless center? Well studies show: Although less than 5% of the population suffers from severe mental illness, they comprise an estimated 20-40% of the homeless population.

History of mental illness "clinically crazy"? his odds just went up for chances of having a mental illness and needing counseling and medication. Sounds bi-polar manic depressive or schizoid maybe a combination. Symptoms generally manifest in late teens through early twenties and progressively get worse over time. I lived with one for ten years, it wasn't pleasant, and hard to see until you have gone through it and are looking back. Your husband could need professional help, and you sound worried enough about it it could be something you look into before pulling the plug on your marriage

Hi I dint feel your parents were sticking their nose in to your life just trying to help. I know you say you love your husband, but sometimes love is just not enough, Your husband does not seem happy, three years is not long in a marriage to walk put and quit when things get tough, why don't you try for a few months to have no contact with him, get on with things and see how you both feel then. There is no magic wand sorry, I really hope things work out Good Luck

It sound like he is not as invested into the marriage as you are. You were very young when you got married and fell into financial hardship before you even got to know each other well. Give him some time to think things over and if he decides to come back it will be for the right reason. You can't change him no matter how hard you try.

You need to first talk to an attorney. There are attorneys that work"pro bono" there may be someone at a women's shelter that can help you legally or tell you where to go. You and your child have been abandoned. Put your "feelings" for him aside for the time being and get mad at what he did. You and your child will be better off without him but make sure he is ordered to support you financially. Your feelings for "love" for him will go away when you are out of shock and see what he has truly done. You are worth more than a life like this. Good luck!

If you want to make it work then you have to be prepared for the hard yards. You say his mother is a bit crazy, maybe he has mental issues and needs professional help.

You know that 'this is your last chance' threat, it only works if you make it his last chance. Saying it over and over again isn't going to change a thing.

sounds like you both need to move away from all relatives and get some counseling ... dont have children yet either.

He's stressed beyond belief and he has given up. That's how it seems to me. If you can't snap him out of it, leave him and tell him you can't be with him unless he straightens up.

Any man who kicks my pet gets kicked to the curb. Screw that.

Lock the front door.