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I dont have any friends...is that strange?

I lived a very sheltered life... then i met guys and dated ALOT but recently i cut them out of my life because i realized they just arent good people...now i have no friends. not one. im not joking either. and anyway i guess i worry when i meet a guy he will think its weird i have no friends. Do i explain to him why? Act like it is not a problem? I dont rele care if i have friends, just worried people think its weird and how do i explain myself.....

im trying to get right with god and i just dont wanna have 100 myspace friends just to have friends if u know wat i mean? i only want good people in my life.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    You shouldn't worry about what a guy would think about you having no friends. If anything, your boyfriend, should be in essence, your best friend. He should be caring, understanding, and more over, tolerant of who you are. It shouldn't matter what you look like, what you do, whether you have friends or not. You should just be truthful and be open.

    Tell him the truth up-front. Maybe it'll be a little awkward because it's not normal to just say the bare truth, but it's good and healthy in a relationship to do that. He will respect you for telling the truth. If he truly cares about you and is a worthy boyfriend, he will understand and he won't care.

    I respect you for realizing that the people you used to be with weren't good people. It puts the power in your hands. Don't try to include yourself into something you're not. Just tolerate anyone who comes along. It doesn't matter what group they belong to. Sometimes the nicest and most thoughtful people can come from places you wouldn't imagine.

    Trust your own judgment. I trust your judgment seeing that you know that the people you used to hang out with weren't good people.

    ~ David (Age 17)

    Source(s): My own experiences.
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    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I know what your saying.. just stay close to God. Really talk to him and ask for things to be better. Pray and mean it. Have faith. If Gods knows deep down, he will help you.

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