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could he secretly like me back?

well, i'm really good friends with this guy. we have been friends since 7th grade and we are now in 9th grade. whenever i see him i always hug him and he doesn't just stand there, he puts his arms around me to hug me, and his hugs are amazing, especially since he's really tall. And today some kid asked us if we were going out and i told the kid, "of course not, he has a girlfriend, and if we were our hands would be like this" so i grabbed my friends hand and it didn't bother him at all. He walked me all the way to my bus and so when we were getting close to the bus we hugged, like as a way to say goodbye, but i didn't want to let go, so we were walking and hugging at the same time, so my friends from my bus started screaming out the window "are you two going out?" and then when we finally let go, i got on the bus and everyone started screaming,"yeah","whoohoo", and things like that. And we get along really well, i know a lot about him and he knows a lot about me.

And I like him a lot, I've liked him since like the middle of 8th grade.

So do you think that the reason why he doesn't mind that people say those things is because he secretly likes me back, or has slight feelings for me.

Thanks in advance to anyone who read and answered my question

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    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    He might like you back, but the only way you can know for sure is to ask him.

    What concerns me though, is that you said he has a girlfriend, and you're getting "like" vibes from him. Any guy in a relationship should not be hugging and getting touchy-feely with another girl the way he does with you. You need to stop grabbing him as long as he's got a girlfriend. And if he tries to touch you, back away, and say, "I can't do that, you have a girlfriend!"

    He could just be being friendly... but, think about how you might feel if you were his girlfriend and he started doing that same stuff he does with you to another girl. You probably wouldn't like it at all. So, as long as he's taken -- back off. Don't be one of those girls that steals other girls' boyfriends. It will only ruin your reputation in the long run (if it already hasn't).

    PS: Now if you guys talk, and he likes you and then breaks up with her to go out with you... well, then he's fair game!

    Good luck!

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