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Ginger asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

I never cry..... is this normal?

Ok, i very rarely cry. Let me start off by saying i am a very loving and very sweet person with 4 wonderful kids and an awesome husband, i have normal emotions but the only reason i ever cry is when im extremely mad and upset (very rare) but as far as other things "normal" people cry about like really emotional events one would cry about, i cant. I still feel just as emotional as the people that cry i just dont cry about it. It makes me feel really awkward in certain situations where people are upset and crying, i think people think im kinna cold hearted when that is so far from the truth, u cant just tell somebody sorry...... i cant cry. Is something wrong with me? Am i cold hearted and just dont realize this lol? I know this is a weird question but this problem bothers me. Is there anyone else out there like this?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Haha, I think your normal though I don't think I can not cry, even though I am a male. Maybe you are just able to control yourself more well than others, alot of people can cry and not feel what they express, simply acting. Haha you can't cry when watching sad movies ='O? I sometimes feel a bit teary eyed when overwhelmed by humbleness and kind hearted acts, I can control my tears, though I feel I can let it out too.

    Don't worry though I think your normal, you seem happy that you have a family and I think oneday maybe when your children grow up you'l ponder those memorable moments and let a tear or two out :) and if not I don't think it matters xD.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't think you're "cold hearted". You just aren't as emotional with crying as them, if you feel awkward when other people are crying and you're not try fake crying, just cover your face and make it seem like your crying. I know that seems rude, but then they wont think that you are cold hearted.

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