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Accidentally gave my gf/bff a bunch of hickies and we aren't out of the closet yet...help?

So basically, tonight things got a little heated, made out, sucking on her neck, grinding on her. (joked that it was her fault cause 1) she bit my neck and left a mark 2) she wanted me on top!).

Thought I was careful enough to not leave any marks, but apparently I misjudged.

We already discussed how to hide them: ice, concealer, collared shirt (she works in an office; nonetheless with her mother, how fun), hair down.

The problem is, if people start asking questions we're gonna have an issue, as neither of us has come out yet. She's only told one friend about us, who is part of the GSA at the high school, and I trust her enough not to say anything.

We're pretty on edge right now, any tips on how to keep this from blowing up on us? Other than being more careful next time, because that's definitly gonna happen!!!!!

If its necessary, I'm 18, she's turning 18 in a week. We're both bisexual.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It will be assumed they were from a guy. If you act odd is the only way it will attract attention to your relationship. If they are seen and you are directly asked about it, just say "It's none of my or your business what goes on with her and her boyfriend". You are supposed to be sucking on parts that don't show anyways. lol Have fun & stay out of trouble. :o)

  • 1 decade ago

    As a rule, I think that people who give and receive hickies are not mature enough to do sex. There is no way to keep this from blowing up. Maybe with make-up. Bad situation. Wish you luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    If anyone asks just say that a man gave it to her... or say that you two were wresting and you bit her, or say that its a stress rash (which really exist. I get stress rash on my neck all the time and it looks like a hickey). there is always an excuse, its just up to you to pick the best one.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Naughty, naughty.

    Meet up somewhere.

    Then do it.

    Solved.

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