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what would you think if you daughter...?

was dating a 20 years older man. and you have been knowing this guy before they started dating.

what would you say to her and would you kick her out. or respect her feelings.

Update:

cause i love a 20 year older man and i wonder what people would think.

please no bad comments

Update 2:

i am 16 but i can wait. :(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i was in a similar realtionship i was 15 though and didnt get out of the realationship till i was 18 nearly 19 seriously do not go there i lost my family because they said he was a sexual predetor i dissagread said he so sweet and generouds move miles away from my family and friends and ended up controled and a shell of a person and when i finally managed to escape i could see i was groomed and he was a pervert please dont go there just wait live a little your only 16 have fun go college hang around with friends dont be getting into realationship with this man i have been in this situation i now you think you love him and hes the best but hes not and you will regret it as i did xxx

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  • 1 decade ago

    well it would depend on the ages. if it were a 16 year old and a 20 year older man, that would be kinda creepy. but if they were older, than it would be acceptable. love is love.

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on your age if your under 18 then i would make sure he never came near you again. if your over 18 it would depend on the what type of guy he was. But by your question i'm sure you are way to young. its called statutory rape and he could go to jail so get over it and look for some one closer to your age.

  • 1 decade ago

    you mean to say he's 38??? that's like one of those episodes from how to catch a predator, you better stop talking to him unless you want him to go to jail for years, disgusting!

    And he's a loser if he can't get anyone his age, or maybe he has and he's just playing you, young girls are naive.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Im 15... so idk. But if she is 18.. theres nothing you can really do but TO respect her feelings. If she really likes him and he likes her.. let them date. Shure its a wierd thought and this situation is very uncommon, but you cant deny her feelings. Just make shure hes not using her.. then its not right

  • 1 decade ago

    its a big age gap...but each to their own i say...just be careful

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on how old u are

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