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Please respond to this question in a mature manner.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and have decided to have sex together. Neither of us are virgins and have had sex with multiple other partners. However, he is very large and I am small and we simply cannot have sex. We've tried it with and without a condom and he can't even enter me from multiple different positions. What do we do? What's  going on?

Thanks!

Lori N · Accepted Answer

USE A CONDOM!!!! If you really are going to be with him for a long time , try sideways, spooning. Use a real lubricant, not the ones on TV for "his and her pleasure".

Muscle Museum · Answer

I had this problem with my boyfriend, he was very big and I was a virgin. I wasn't aroused enough and it really hurt.

Make sure you're properly aroused. Spontaneous sex is normally a MASSIVE turn-on, so don't plan it, just start making out randomly and you'll find that you'll be moist enough for it to slip in easily. If you have a problem with getting wet then invest in a good lube. Also, foreplay is key :)

I find it easier to get on top in the missionary position and ease yourself on.

Mellisa the female gorilla · Answer

Well this may be old fashion advice but it is the most helpful. Get lubericant and use it on the tip of his penis as he enters. It should give you the extra help you need. Sometimes my ex who was larger, had to open me up on one side as he thrust it in at the same time. You may need a little help opening as well. Good luck and if it hurts don't do it:)

rejectedsoul · Answer

forplay
and relax
sounds like your not ready for sex
your tensing up

wait a few months and get to know him better

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