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I told my boss that I couldn't participate in the Halloween Dress Up Contest due to religious reasons?

I got very defensive and started attacking me regarding my work.

What should I do?

Update:

He responded,"that's not a good excuse."

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should have a concrete conversation with him about his remark, "that's not a good excuse". Does he mean that he's requiring you to wear a costume? If so, what repercussions is he threatening if you don't? Now, is this boss THE boss, or just a department manager? If he's just a manager, has there been any official corporate communication on the event?

    Do you really have a religious objection to the Halloween costume contest? If so, then cite the elements of your religious belief that supports your objection in writing and submit it to both the manager and somewhere up the line (HR, etc.)

    If your objection is really something else, and now on a religious basis, then why not just join in the goofy festivities and not be a stick in the mud? You could always dress up as your boss! Of course that might have a different set of implications.

    Good luck dude.

  • 5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you really do have religious reasons for not participating, your boss should respect that. Halloween activities are supposed to be fun, not required unless you work in a haunted house or something.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Move on and stick to your decision. Don't engage in continuous conversations about it. If he keeps bringing it up, just tell him you'll think about it.

    But if you don't want to participate in a costume, just keep it to yourself. Once you show up for work, looking professional, I doubt he will make you leave.

    But document these difficulties just in case he tries to include this on a performance evaluation.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why did you have to say anything at all? You could have just come to work dressed normally. Don't bring religion into the work place.

  • Judy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He's an idiot. But if he drops the subject, you really should also. If he doesn't, go to HR or to his supervisor.

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